Would you date someone who ghosted you before?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Sour-rose]

You see how old i am? Yeah? Then the answer is obvious.

Didn't do exactly what I wanted, had two interviews today. One i knew how it was going to go... with a 50/50 chance I get a job. But then their process for my check is to drive my ass up there and go get it. Soo, decided not to do them this time. Other one, i missed by a few minutes and couldn't get in because I wanted to eat first at a golden corral. Which was totally worth iiiiiit. 🖤 Chances are I'll be more successful with things I must do tomorrow.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Speaking from experience- NO.
I've had a few guys disappear, only to reappear weeks, months, even YEARS later (yeah, the worse reappearing after nearly two years).

By that point, I was over them, or realized if they really wanted me, they wouldn't have ghosted me in the first place.

[Flatmanlewis]

Probably not. I mean, I’d hear them out and if they had been kidnapped or maybe trapped in a snowed in mountain pass we could at least consider it, but it’s doubtful. You’ve already established you lack respect for others and a shallow, narcissistic nature. Kind of a buzz kill at that point.

[DannyUk2017]

Yes i could give them a chance, unless i don't know the reason behind it... if it was a stupid/useless motive, then... No! I'm not a tomboy that you can just take and play with it, and when you get bored/tired, just leave me on the shelve, and move on to another. 🤷‍♂️

[ManOnFire]

I respect myself too much for that.

[natured]

It honestly depends why he ghosted me...
I usually believe that people didn't want to harm me intentionally and give them a chance to first talk about it... if they are honest, then yes, I might give them a second chance but I'd take that step very slow and on my terms..

[ManOnFire]

You would be okay with that? Wouldn’t it seem like a ghoster is just taking advantage of you? It's okay to forgive, but give them a second chance? I feel like they would just do it again.

[natured]

@ManOnFire Like I said it honestly depends WHY they ghosted.. and obviously if they do it again that's when the case will be permanentley closed...
Trick me once shame on you , trick me twice shame on me So yeah I think it depends on his story and if it's worth the risk

[Anonymous]

I chose yes because there is a possibility that I would. But it depends of the person and what exactly “ghosted” means in this case. Cause to me “ghosting” means that you never hear from them again… so actually dating them means that you were never ghosted…

But it all depends of who they are, what they did, why they “ghosted” me… and how they did it.

[Screenwriter]

Ghosting is a prequel to a future event of being unstable or insulting.

There's no excuse for ghosting someone UNLESS they've been disrespectful, hurtful or insulting toward you.

I'd steer clear.

[Married_mature]

If they've ghosted me before, there's every chance they can ghost me again. Once you get involved with someone and if they ghost you, you are fucked mentally. You don't want to put yourself in that state twice

[EmyyWolf]

ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NO

They ghost = They DONT like you

[Joshydavid25]

Well, it guess it depends on if we connect.. I wouldn't automatically turn down somebody if they originally Ghosted but reached back out, apologized and we went from there..

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've never been ghosted, but I imagine no. I'd sleep with her again though.

[Naruse]

Depends on the context and reasoning but yeah it's a big red flag..

[sheikalana]

I don’t think you should give second chances or even get in touch with someone who ghosted you even if they try to reach out.

[Monalisa77]

Depends, if there was a misscommunication thing sure but if they were doing it for badness no

[strateguy632]

to mona, ghosting is passive. not miscommunication

[Monalisa77]

I can get v confused about things

[Radiate143]

When I was naive and didn't know about all of these games I did. It was the worst relationship of my life that I am still healing from.

[laraWM]

I don't think so, but you can never know what will happen

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

If I ghosted you, then came crawling back on my hands and knees to worship you, would you have any hint of respect left for me? Strong pass.

[Asker]

Ew no. Desperate.

[Asker]

Plus he left me once he will leave me again

[notfoundtoday]

Yes but only if it is going ends with dominating her in bed.

[Stefan181]

Noooo
If you ghosted me once I will cut you out of my life
I'm not an option!
I am the obvious choice ( All people should own this saying )

[Anonymous]

No. I asked this one woman out and she ghosted me. 6 months later I guess she changed her mind and and wanted to go out with me. And so I ghosted her. Ahhhh 6 months payback tasted so sweet!😆

[Anon_desi]

Nope. If they have left you once, they will leave again

[Anonymous]

It would depend on the reason for why they did

[JamesRandiDebates]

I've gone over for booty calls from bitches who had ghosted me long previous.