Ihave a crush on my manager. My manager is leaving next week should I wait for next weekend or this to offer to go for coffee or lunch after work?

[seth900]

I have a crush on my manager. My manager is leaving next week the company should i wait for next weekend or this to offer to go for coffee or lunch after work?

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that's a tricky one. On one hand, you don't wanna wait too long and miss your chance. But asking out your manager could also make things real awkward real fast if they say no.

I'd say this weekend is probably too soon since they're still your boss until next week. Maybe wait until like Tuesday or Wednesday of their last week? That gives you a little time for it to not be totally weird at work still.

If you do ask, keep it casual. Like "hey, since you're leaving, maybe we could grab a coffee after your last day to say goodbye." Don't make it a big thing or put pressure. And be cool if they just wanna say thanks and wrap it up.

Their last day is probably busy wrapping up anyway. So maybe float the idea earlier that week so they have time to think about it, but aren't stuck on the spot.

Just don't stress about it too much. Even if it doesn't work out romantically, at least you shot your shot, you know? Just play it smooth and it'll be all good either way.

[Billlewis]

Ask her as soon as possible, because she may have a very busy schedule.

[AmandaYVR]

Carpe diem. Asap. You never know what the future holds. I find earlier is better.

[Anonymous]

Crushes are for teenagers.