Chinese Relationships?

[Anonymous]

Guys, there’s something i have noted with the chinese. Their dating life seems so weird. You’ll find very young teens holding hands in public, especially those who’ve been to Melbourne CBD. They are said to be reserved, and shy. They also just date each other, if you find a chinese/Asian with other race, it’ll be most likely to be a white guy like a european for example. The point is they’re just weird. It’s a curiosity. Who knows about all these? Just like the filipino dating and marrying white guys, is it because they believe they are well-off momentarily?

[molonski2]

Very very different going out with Chinese compared to Flippers , plus MOST of those Chinese in Melbourne Australia will be extremely well off , I've dated a couple , and there in one Chinese RE agent in Melb that I still completely adore.

Basically , when you think you are going Sht ( getting little encouragement , or come on ) , then they will shock you , and just literally " jump " you , when you were not even expecting , but all that after going out 3-4 times and nothing happened.

Region makes a difference too , Hong Kong more forward , but some of the same stuff , had same thing with a HK girl , again thought I was doing no good , bang , jumped me.

Financial status will make a big difference , but I love Chinese girls , I see one here sometimes too , and I really adore her.

[Asker]

So these chinese ladies want you to make a move fast after few dates? I thought i heard they’re too reserved and take long getting to know someone but after sometimes which seems quite a long time it becomes obvious that you’re dating

[molonski2]

They need 3 /4 dates , then it will certainly happen if you have made it to 4 th time.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, yeah Chinese dating culture can seem weird to us at first. But ya gotta look at it from their perspective.

A lot of it comes down to tradition and parental influence, I think. Chinese families are big on respecting elders, so the parents still play a big role in dating.

Holding hands young could just be their version of being affectionate. And they probably date each other cause it's more accepted by family/community. Safety in numbers kinda thing.

As for dating whites, some do see them as more well-off opportunities. But there's also just natural attraction outside their race too. And western culture is really popular in Asia.

We shouldn't judge too much - it works for them. And some Chinese who move here start adopting more of our dating styles too. Cultures always mix together.

I say just focus on your own game, bro! Who cares what other races do as long as they're happy. We all like different things.