One guy I was seeing keeps canceling on me for various reasons. Telling me that he really misses me and he does really want me over but things just come up. Some examples of things that came up in the past: he had to set up a desk, his friends dragged him out, he is super tired, his stomach hurt, he got sick, etc. I understand that most of those are valid reasons because he did really get sick, etc. the thing is I do really like him and I don’t want a relationship. I’m just fine with us being friends but it really feels like he doesn’t want to put any effort in. Did he really have to set the desk up the same day after he made plans with me? Probably not. My question is what do I say to that? “I can’t give u more” I don’t really want this to be over but also I want him to understand that I have my standards and won’t settle for someone that can’t keep up with his plans. In my opinion, I really think he could move some stuff around if I was aa important to him as he says. How do I tell him that in a nice way?
What do I answer to “i wish I could give you more but I really can’t, I can’t really give anybody more” ?
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