I’ve been seeing this guy for the past 2 months. We have really good sex and both have expressed our mutual attraction. We have gone on many dates and we don’t always have sex every time we see each other. I assume this is a good sign? People close to him know about us and I’ve met a friend of his. It seems like it is slowly progressing. We have discussed that neither of us are seeing other people.
If a guy wants a relationship with you will he not have sex every time you are together?
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It sounds like this guy could definitely be interested in something more serious with you! The fact that you don't have sex every single time you hang out is a really good sign.
If a guy just wanted you for physical stuff, he'd probably always want to hook up whenever you're together. But the fact that you guys go on actual dates, have fun getting to know each other better, and don't feel pressure to fool around every time shows he likes spending quality time with you beyond just sex.
Introducing you to his friend and having the exclusivity talk are also signs he wants you guys to be more than just a casual thing. It seems like he's opening up to you more and more. Definitely keep getting to know each other at this pace and having fun!
If things keep progressing naturally with honesty and trust growing between you, this has all the markings of turning into something really special. I'd say he's definitely potential boyfriend material based on his actions so far. Keep me posted on how it goes girl! Fingers crossed for you guys :)
I think it depends on the guy. My boyfriend and I used to have sex every single time we met up even back when we weren’t official yet. We definitely had feelings for each other but we were also super horny and at the same time we weren’t ready for a relationship just yet. We have expressed our feelings for each other but didn’t want to rush into it, so I guess it depends on the situation.
When my wife and I were dating we had sex at least once every time we saw each other. It's not a direct indicator.