Will a guy keep having sex with you if your always their for only him 2 years into it, and he ignores me for days till he wants to hook up he's fn 41?

[marney]

[SueShe]

At his age, fornication should have lost most of its appeal, if you can call it appeal. Most men don't have the urge anymore to be the slave of their testosterone and concentrate on more important things of life. Copulation has lost the interest it used to have when it was something new. Like with everything, when it becomes a routine, it gets boring.

He may just want to have you nearby for when this time comes up when he needs to follow what his testosterone dictate him and that is when he needs to hook up. He may not find anybody else that is willing to just open her legs for him, so he remembers you and that is when he is thinking of you.

You should not agree to be simply someone to fornicate with. You have your dignity.

[marney]

I've only been with five guys in my whole life I was married for many years we were best friends first and I don't just spread my legs it's usually just oral LOL usually we sit and talk for a long time couple hours and then it leads to that I went through an abusive relationship 7 years after my husband passed away and he helped me out of that he would think that somebody that was your friend and knows what you've been through wouldn't start lying to you I know about fornication my father was a pastor and I am absolutely going to stop this because of my belief my spiritual beliefs is starting to weigh heavy on my heart and I don't like the way it's making me feel

[marney]

Maybe I was just desperate for attention because only attention I got after my husband died in that bad relationship was being abused and he did make me feel good only when we're together as soon as he drops me off it's like all the feelings go out the window and I have to beg for attention and he doesn't answer my text messages for days I don't like that

[SueShe]

What you need are friends that accept you for whom you are and not just use you for their sole physical pleasure.

You could join a club or take up a hobby where you can meet people that share the same interests as you do. Being able to talk with people about things you share in common is a great way to make friends.

[marney]

Did I mention he's a drug addict that probably explains a lot I pray for him all the time so yeah he's really into fornication I thought he was a really innocent guy I just see how many believe he is now he's really good looking though I don't know he's just charming because he's manipulating

[marney]

I used to have a lot of friends I work for the same corporation for 17 years and played on a baseball team and was very outgoing but depression took over and I retired from that job now I'm waiting to go to nursing school and I just moved to this town I was kind of crappy because he is basically my only friend here so yes I do need to readjust and do things different

[marney]

I lost a husband and then a son committed suicide 5 years later at the age of 30 he was in Marine so yeah I've been struggling going through things

[marney]

That's why I don't understand why he's playing games with me he knows I'm a little broken so why would he do this to me

[SueShe]

He is playing games with you BECAUSE you are a little broker and BECAUSE he knows you are fragile and probably craving for love and attention.

[itsannalee]

Yes maybe, because he has no option.
And you let him disrespect you, so for him why not.

[marney]

This is going to be the first time I've ever cut him off completely I blocked him and I stuck up for myself and I told him that I deserve better and this is b******* he's not even treat me like a friend he only lives a third of a mile up the street from me let's see how this one pans out he's not used to being neglected or anybody saying no to him

[Anonymous]

You are probably his side chick. So as long as the main girl doesn't find out about you; yes.

[marney]

He was my boyfriend until 7 months ago, he lives with his mom my phone broke and so he gave me an extra one needless to say he didn't know all his old text messages were in his phone from 5 years ago he had four different girls strung along I told him I didn't want relationship with him that's not what I'm looking for I'm looking for respect we will go to his house or park somewhere but then he ignores my text messages for three or four days that's what's annoying me cuz I think it's disrespectful and I want a little bit more attention to show that I'm important to him because we were friends for a long time first he's just coming up with excuses like he broke his back he didn't break his back he had a freaking pulled muscle then he told me he had food poisoning then he had strep throat the soul within 3 weeks he's just being a dick to me

[marney]

Being his best friend for a year and a half I know a lot about him he still messes around with one girl that he doesn't have kids by never been married for 16 years because she's a challenge that's why I wasn't looking for a relationship what I'm looking for is my friend to treat me like a friend and respect me not to treat me like I'm one of the side chicks

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like he has a bunch of extra women

[marney]

I guess you could say honesty that's what I'm looking for he's not being honest with me and that went out the window soon as we started sleeping together

[marney]

I know he does he lies to me he'll go 29 days without talking to me and I'm like you're juggling too many different girls I said I don't give a f what you're doing but I'm supposed to be your friend you're not supposed to be lying to me I'm not supposed to be treated like a side chick but the more I demand honesty the less he gives it to me and now it's gotten to the fact I think he's addicted to p*** he acts like he's in a p*** movie and it's almost degrading me sexually I'm just done with it I think yeah I have to be because there's no respect anymore I'm 14 years older than him

[Opinion Owner]

You should probably look for someone else to give you the respect and honesty you deserve

[marney]

And that I will I don't like the way he's making me feel and there should be no confusion or disrespect he says how in the hell could he possibly want anybody else I'm the best he's ever had he's full of s*** because guys get bored with the same girl especially narcissistics they like a challenge they like to chase girls that are hard to get I've been to easy because I didn't want no attachment I just wanted him to be honest he's just f****** f***** up

[jahaims]

46 years old and still hasn't figured out how to not be the side chick

[wkhan_87]

Every other guy is different u know

[marney]

I should probably just cut him off and see what his reaction is he brought something up the other night and said that he never thought I wanted anything because I call him my boy toy he's not capable of having a girlfriend I know this because I'm older he'll play little games just to keep me breadcrumbing along I'm just too old for the f****** b*******

[marney]

Not too old to wise

[wkhan_87]

Ohh yes I got , he is just enjoying with you, nothing else

[marney]

I thought we were best friends with benefits but it turns out he's not even treating me like a friend

[marney]

So I'm nothing else that's exactly how I feel he's treating me that sucks

[wkhan_87]

You also should move on

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes.

[marney]

I was married 15 years my husband died im naive but I told him to bounce to night I said men are a dime a dozen I could find one to sleep with that would at least give me more attention, he didn't respond bc he don't gaf

[_Maya_]

@BarryLiverstone 😂

[Wise4myage]

Yes, of course.