If I go to my guy friend who I’ve know for a year been on two dates with months go’s place will he expect sex?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I don’t feel weird about going to his house because I genuinely know him but I don’t want to hook up. Do I have to have that made clear before I go?

[yerrrnycbabe]

So after several awkward situations of assuming someone was gay because they didn’t immediately try to hookup with me or creep me out in any way

(because I actually know gay men & how that “act” will depend on who you’re talking about and those characteristics & mannerisms can also be applied to straight people type thing)

I’ve started just making it known I’m asexual and not really physically attracted to anyone in “that way” and have little interest in real life hookups and how annoying I find it when people try to do it with me. Usually by looking at my phone and gasping or sighing so I get asked what’s wrong, that’s when I bring it up.

so maybe try that if you feel like being extra lol

depending on how brave you are coming out and saying it could be an option, but leaves room for hurt feelings in SEVERAL ways lol so I would tread lightly (I’m a baby lol)

[KathrynTaylor]

He’ll be wanting sex. I’d invite him to your house for lunch and ask how he’d feel about kissing on the lips and say you really like him but you’re not ready for sex.

[Summeroflove]

Well if you want to go go. But don’t have sex. If he wants sex just dump him and leave.

[Smoothing]

It all depends on how you dress and act around him.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes if you go there he's gonna try but I think deep down you know it. Even if you make it clear he's still gonna try your gorgeous he'd be a fool not to

[Neilbud]

You could casually let him know you are not interested in hooking up.

[TallAnon]

Any time you're alone with a hot girl you're gonna think about sex tbh

[Guardian45]

If he's someone you trust and listens to you then there shouldn't be any problems.

[Alex8736]

just ask what he has in mind and what should you bring

[Anonymous]

Probably a good idea. Are you planing to stay overnight at his place? Is it just you and him?

[BJP21]

Make sure you set that boundary if you do.

[Kelly6]

Yes he will