How do you meet a nice girl if you're a loner who's a big introvert?

[RealLifeHarleyQuinn]

I don't like to leave my apartment, I'm very quiet, a big nerd, a little weird and I have a hard time dealing with lots of people. I have really bad social anxiety and that probably account's to me not having that many friends. But I like to express myself through my songs, poems and writing. I'm just really scared that if I show them to people they wouldn't like them and pick on me for it.

[Sonorous]

A lot of people meet through the internet nowadays so maybe be smart about trying to put yourself in online community spaces where girls in your area might be? Either that or prepare to meet with someone that lives far away? Don't know. I don't go out much either but I'm pretty sure I'd be fine with never having a girlfriend so maybe I'm not the best person to comment on this. 🤣

[Anonymous]

You can hire a professional cuddler to care for you like a baby. You're only cuddling. Don't worry; it is non-sexual because you're too scared of women to do that. But it'll hopefully help you get used to women.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/OG2zugvBmt0

[RealLifeHarleyQuinn]

I don't know, I'm the type of person where if I hired someone to do stuff like that I would instantly fall in love with them. Wither it's sexual or not I would have easily have feelings for them.

[Opinion Owner]

There's also rental girlfriends. I don't know too much about that. But my friend takes her out on dates in public and they make out. They won't go to your house or have sex though.

It might good for you. Being touch deprived has a lot of negative effects. So just having someone touch might help you feel better.

[YesterdaysChild]

Post a lot of stuff in here. When you get used to people in here it should be easier for you to talk to people in the real world. You also may need a prescription for anxiety meds.

[RealLifeHarleyQuinn]

I already do. Sadly they don't work that well.

[Staximus]

You're not going to meet any girls while hiding in your apartment