Is it a bad idea if a guy is just lookmaxing and has no intetest in dating?

[Anonymous]

I am 22 and currently looksmaxxing. I never had and probably will never have any interest in approaching a woman.

Is that bad

Yes, it is bad.

No, it is not bad

[myacaii]

Looksmaxing is simply just self-improvement, obviously that’s fine to do regardless of the intention behind it. The approaching women bit, if you’re not interested, that’s fine. But just so you know, most women tend to expect guys to make the first move so you might be making it unnecessarily hard for yourself to find someone by not pursuing. Plenty of women will find guys attractive and say nothing to them, just something to keep in mind if you did eventually want a relationship

[Asker]

Yeah sure. I do not expect women to approach me.
But dating and relatiobships in 2023 are really messed up. I do not want to lose my piece of mind.

[Asker]

Peace,*

[myacaii]

That’s fair

[mandyfire98]

Nothing wrong with focusing on yourself and bettering yourself overall for you.

[Asker]

I agree.

[DarkWinterNights]

I wouldn’t say it’s “bad”, but it’s a bit egotistical and probably not very emotionally healthy.

[Asker]

I understand the egotistical but not the "emotionally unhealthy".

[ProbablyClueless]

Why would it be bad to looksmax for yourself?

[Asker]

I don't know. Maybe too selfish.

[Anonymous]

You are obviously childish, so you are probably doing women a huge favour.

[Asker]

Why is that? I love women. I do not think bad of them as a gender. That would be absurd.
It is just I am not in my best level yet tu pursue dating.