
Is it risky to eat spaghetti on a first date?


If you twirl it round your fork loads (like below), then it's way less messy because it doesn't hit your chin. I'd still eat spaghetti on a date personally. It's too delicious! And if he's gonna lose interest because of spaghetti, then that's not the type of guy I want anyway!
It's risky because of the sauce. Maybe go for lasagna or cheesy linguine instead. With lasagna you can at least use a fork and knife to cut it, but even that could be a slippery disaster all on its own if you're not careful. Only other reason I wouldn't suggest italian food is because of the possibility of it making your breath stink.
Risky for me, as I would be embarrassed by getting spaghetti sauce on my shirt. . . despite my most diligent efforts to avoid it.
Oh my God, seriously? Lmfao. You'll both be getting kind of messy so what difference does it make? Enjoy yourselves.
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If that’s what you want to do. Coffee is a better first date. It’s easy to bail. It’s much harder to bail if you’re eating at a restaurant. It’s more awkward. There is the issue of paying the tab. If you just run out you can be charged for theft of services (yes this has happened).
But if you want spaghetti go have it lol
No, that's fine. Just remember to twirl a small piece on a spoon before stuffing it in your mouth.
That’s up there with ribs as one of my “absolutely not” date meals. Honestly, even salads can be dangerous. Ideally, you want something you can cut into small portions with a fork and knife, so you always get a small bite that doesn’t cause you to contort face like a weirdo to eat it, lmao. Some kind of a piece of meat, and sides that have good structure, like mashed potatoes, broccoli, etc. Whatever needs to be done to go 100% on taking clean bites.
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I so agree with you.
It is not a graceful food to consume. My mother said I had to eat a plate of spaghetti while wearing a white turtle neck and not get a drop on me before she woulde trust me at dinner parties. I did it once.
at first i thought this said is it risky to eat spaghetti at a funeral 🤷♀️
It reminds me of these two 🤣🤣 Not my preference for a first that meal tho I'd much rather eat pizza or salad
Depends, some restaurants will give you a bib to wear if you are eating spaghetti. However on a first date, I would definitely stay away from any type of food that can be messy.
Nah, though I'd never go to a restaurant for spaghetti.. That's as bad as chef boyardee.. Ew. If I'm having spaghetti, it's home made using my great grandmother's recipe, anything else would be an insult.
It is. Many people have choked on spaghetti on first dates laughing at a joke, and the Heimlich maneuver had to be administered.
Yea i wouldn't do it unless it was less messy like penne pasta. He had already warned me that he's a noodle slurper lmao
No, I only like Italian Food in Italy. Not that German Pizza or something else that is customized to the country
Definitely had a first great date eating spaghetti. Its classy and romantic in my opinion.
i've never let that get in the way of what i want to eat lol
I usually would go for a steak. But if she gets spaghetti, and gets in on her dress or shirt, I would offer to help undress her as a gentleman should. Hehe
It’s pretty risky. The sauce goes everywhere and it’s funny trying to eat it
Nobody looks good while eating spaghetti but nothing wrong with that.
I'm laughing so hard at the question I can't answer! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Make sure you tuck an open napkin into the collar of your shirt to prevent accidental food splash back. 👍🙂
Risky how? Because of the sauce? Maybe. Or you talking how it makes you look to your date if you’re slurping up spaghetti noodles?
sometimes it works out just fine 😋
Absolutely. I’d never choose spaghetti it’s so messy lol
No, it is great. It is hard to put on a false face when it and your top have sauce on them.
If you really like her and she likes you, neither will care about a little spaghetti mess, it may even be funny.

this?
Do not slurp like one does when eating Ramin Soup and you should be alright
No, just don’t wear a white shirt with it and don’t take a big fork full of it
If you can eat it without wearing some of the sauce. It has a tendency to go everywhere.
PROBABLY WOULDN'T BE MY FIRST CHOICE
In my eyes don't matter as long as you are enjoying the food I am happy too
I don’t give a fuck for one bit. I eat whatever I want to eat
No more risky then eating pizza or hamburgers or tacos
It is best to wear red clothing... LOL
Eat whatever your heart content.
It depends on the couple
Sure I love spaghetti 🍝
With a long beard, it's risky anytime.
If it's saucy it can get messy.
Pretty risky, but I'd love it!
I mean the risk is staining your outfit lol
Why would it be risky
It’s a good way to break the ice 🤣
It’s messy but my favorite
Depends on how much garlic is in the sauce.
Might as well ask to marry him.
Depends on how messy you are!
Maybe okay if you're Italian
I don't think so. Why would you think it's risky
I dont like spagetti?
You gotta twirl it on the fork.
Why would it be?
No. Not at all.
Not at all!
Yes, typically messy
I wouldn't
No it's okay
heck no
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