Is it risky to eat spaghetti on a first date?

[nurse]

[Guccigabbana18]

If you twirl it round your fork loads (like below), then it's way less messy because it doesn't hit your chin. I'd still eat spaghetti on a date personally. It's too delicious! And if he's gonna lose interest because of spaghetti, then that's not the type of guy I want anyway!

[PBandJ_Nerd]

It's risky because of the sauce. Maybe go for lasagna or cheesy linguine instead. With lasagna you can at least use a fork and knife to cut it, but even that could be a slippery disaster all on its own if you're not careful. Only other reason I wouldn't suggest italian food is because of the possibility of it making your breath stink.

[OlderAndWiser]

Risky for me, as I would be embarrassed by getting spaghetti sauce on my shirt. . . despite my most diligent efforts to avoid it.

[ManOnFire]

Oh my God, seriously? Lmfao. You'll both be getting kind of messy so what difference does it make? Enjoy yourselves.

[Summeroflove]

If that’s what you want to do. Coffee is a better first date. It’s easy to bail. It’s much harder to bail if you’re eating at a restaurant. It’s more awkward. There is the issue of paying the tab. If you just run out you can be charged for theft of services (yes this has happened).

But if you want spaghetti go have it lol

[AviatorTom]

No, that's fine. Just remember to twirl a small piece on a spoon before stuffing it in your mouth.

[WhiteSteve]

That’s up there with ribs as one of my “absolutely not” date meals. Honestly, even salads can be dangerous. Ideally, you want something you can cut into small portions with a fork and knife, so you always get a small bite that doesn’t cause you to contort face like a weirdo to eat it, lmao. Some kind of a piece of meat, and sides that have good structure, like mashed potatoes, broccoli, etc. Whatever needs to be done to go 100% on taking clean bites.

[pathfinder69420]

Don't listen to dating advice. Be yourself. Never listen to dating coaches or gurus who tell you that not being yourself is the norm. These "professionals" and the entire industry harms society in two ways: 1. It normalizes manipulation as an integral part of dating and relationships. 2. We're encouraged to treat others as expendable and quantifying a person's worth with ridiculous numerical systems is so demeaning.

[Guccigabbana18]

I so agree with you.

[AMS700CX4u2]

It is not a graceful food to consume. My mother said I had to eat a plate of spaghetti while wearing a white turtle neck and not get a drop on me before she woulde trust me at dinner parties. I did it once.

[rachel776]

at first i thought this said is it risky to eat spaghetti at a funeral 🤷‍♀️

[Minahh]

It reminds me of these two 🤣🤣 Not my preference for a first that meal tho I'd much rather eat pizza or salad

[slatyb]

It is. Many people have choked on spaghetti on first dates laughing at a joke, and the Heimlich maneuver had to be administered.

[fantasticass]

Depends, some restaurants will give you a bib to wear if you are eating spaghetti. However on a first date, I would definitely stay away from any type of food that can be messy.

[worldscolide]

Nah, though I'd never go to a restaurant for spaghetti.. That's as bad as chef boyardee.. Ew. If I'm having spaghetti, it's home made using my great grandmother's recipe, anything else would be an insult.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i wouldn't do it unless it was less messy like penne pasta. He had already warned me that he's a noodle slurper lmao

[MissStrawberry912]

Definitely had a first great date eating spaghetti. Its classy and romantic in my opinion.

[Unycorn]

No, I only like Italian Food in Italy. Not that German Pizza or something else that is customized to the country

[rosemilk]

i've never let that get in the way of what i want to eat lol

[Kinkyhubby]

I usually would go for a steak. But if she gets spaghetti, and gets in on her dress or shirt, I would offer to help undress her as a gentleman should. Hehe

[YourSong]

It’s pretty risky. The sauce goes everywhere and it’s funny trying to eat it

[tfan1]

Make sure you tuck an open napkin into the collar of your shirt to prevent accidental food splash back. 👍🙂

[Anonymous]

Risky how? Because of the sauce? Maybe. Or you talking how it makes you look to your date if you’re slurping up spaghetti noodles?

[RingOfFire]

I'm laughing so hard at the question I can't answer! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[dolemite58]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/1nWNXO3CZkU

sometimes it works out just fine 😋