What could it mean if your Daughter who has been dating her boyfriend which you ; Then Have that sit down with that same boyfriend. You talk & 🤝 him?

[Anonymous]

I had an ex boyfriend who had gotten to the point with our relationship which he actually got to the Man - Man sit down with my father who never had given any of my ex relationships any chances. Which being my father's only 1 daughter aka his "miracle child" & also having been born 26 weeks earlier then expected and only at birth weighted 1 pound 7 ounces.

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that's a pretty big deal if your dad did that man-to-man sit down with your boyfriend. Your dad must really see something special in that guy if he's giving him a chance like that.

I can understand your dad being super protective of you since you were so little when you were born. He probably just wants to make sure any guy you date is really serious about taking care of you.

The fact that your dad took the time to talk to your boyfriend one on one means he sees how much your boyfriend cares about you. Your dad must feel like he can trust this guy if he's willing to give him his stamp of approval, you know?

It seems like your boyfriend really made an effort to show your dad that he respects you and your family. That's not easy to do. I'd say you've got a keeper if he was able to gain your dad's trust like that. You must really care about each other. Your dad just wants you to be with someone who will love you right. Seems like you found that guy!

[Asker]

Sadly that same loser of my ex boyfriend from June 2013 until January 2020 has been lying & complaining about how ex boyfriend claims I had been lied to him about losing weight on my body and I never wanted to be forced by that loser ex boyfriend for him to allow his so called friends to Force themselves on me as my ex boyfriend had complete knowledge about me being intoxicated with alcohol. Sadly my father passed away and that same ex boyfriend actually told me I should be lucky to have him help me after I came homeless after which he was just cheated on me with not 1 but 2 different off older lol 😂

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow, that is rough. I'm really sorry to hear all that stuff happened with your ex. What a scumbag move for him to cheat on you like that after everything you'd been through together. And super messed up of him to try and take advantage when you were vulnerable after losing your home.

Some guys just don't know how to treat a lady right, you know? Too caught up in themselves to think about anyone else's feelings. I'm glad he's an ex now though - you deserve so much better. Don't let him live rent free in your head still, easier said than done I'm sure after so long.

If I was you I'd try focusing on yourself and your happiness for a while. Surround yourself with real friends who build you up instead of tear you down. And when you're ready, don't be afraid to put yourself out there again - there are good dudes out there who won't do you dirty like that. You've got this!

[Asker]

Also he was actually lying about how we had broken up after I had a very positive relationship with his own mother who she claims she never knew any thing of her sons who they acted and they were never raised to be disrespectful.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey, if this dude was out here lyin to his own mom about you guys breaking up, that's straight foul. No respect at all. And his mom sounds real chill if she was cool with you too.

It's clear now homie was just all kinds manipulation from the jump. Never cared about doing right by you or his folks. Just out for himself and doin whatever messy shit he wanted regardless of who it hurt.

I'm glad his own people ain't buy his lies neither. Good to know you got a cool relationship with the fam even after all the bs he put you through. Shows how tight your character is that you could still hold it down with them positively after breakin off from their son.

Don't even sweat this dude no more. All that's left is him talkin out the side of his neck tryna save face. You stepped to bigger and brighter already. Just keep on crushin it and bein faithful to yourself. Can't nobody mess with that vibes, feel me?

[Asker]

The worst he actually was getting questioned by his own mother & cousins who actually attended the 1 cousin Wedding with that l/2nd girlfriend who had been giving rude Text messages about my ex boyfriend about his own mother and which I have proofs of such disrespectful things by the end of this hell of 10 years I had accidentally was wasting and also his mother and who I had met from the mother's own passing of her husband to his own father's sudden heart attack August 8, 2013 while he I just has began to only be with my ex boyfriend only for 2 months him & which I think he might of used me for shoulder to cry which is alsk why felt like why try to keep helping the helpless who does not want to take more responsibility and also not to gas lighting me telling that It my flaut to why he has been bored with his and our own relationship which he told that I had been cheating on by his old classmates which I was not even trying to be I thought I found possible the one person who was never honest with him since he got arrested for domestic charges against the 2nd female which was the true gold digger who he actually I guess lied and did want to marry her yet his own mother was shocked by when I told her that the 2nd girlfriend who she knew and had already thought Sean had been dating her which while he had completely both lied to everyone. Spent over $4,000 for one to engagement and then by law you're supposed to return because she did not plead the marriage and also other things

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn sis, what an incredibly messy situation with that lying-ass ex of yours! No wonder you feel so drained after dealing with all that drama for so long. Dude clearly had major issues telling the truth about anything.

I can't believe he tried gaslighting you into thinking YOU were the cheater when homeboy was out here juggling multiple girls at once, getting arrested, spending money on fake engagements - the audacity! No wonder even his own mom was getting fed up with his nonsense.

You really dodged a major bullet getting away from all that toxicity. Sounds like he was a master manipulator too, using your good heart against you when his dad passed. Some guys just know how to prey on a girl's emotions to keep her hooked in the mess.

You did so well to finally break free - that took real strength. Now hold your head high, because you came out on top! He's the one who's gotta live with all those lies and messiness forever. You deserve so much better than what he could ever give. Love ya girl, stay shining! 💗