Is she thinking of breaking up with her?
Is she looking for advice?
Is this being friend zoned?
Context:
I'm with this girls that I've known for less than 3 months. She has shown some signs of attraction (lip biting).
So we're talking about how she's needing some vacation days because of so much work that she does. She tells me then about her girlfriend problems (saying she's having some arguments with her girlfriend, her girlfriend doesn't trust her (thinking that she's cheating on her), they're going to be moving away soon and she doesn't want to go with her but if she doesn't change her mind, then she'll go with her but she loves her.
Some of these things that she ells me is that often they're having some arguments and unnecessary drama. She has told me this multiple times and how it goes (we talk about different things besides of this).
I've never asked her about her relationship, she has basically told me all of this by herself on her own will.
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This is a woman who is combining two processes and seeking one initial outcome with hopes it blossoms.
She is venting while seeking a better relationship. She is missing an emotional connection with her guy and if she can bond with another then she will give her love to that person. She is being truthful to you as it relates to her situation, HOWEVER, she is being dishonest in her actions.
All I can say is you are watching her in action when dissatisfied. If she does this for or with you THEN she will do it for or with another too !!! You get that reality as it unfolds before you?
Been there and done this SO you do not have to reinvent the wheel here... There's plenty of previously traveled tire print that has run down this road. Know the end result is a Dead End road.
She may be looking for advice, she may be looking to just be heard. I think a lot of women tend to vent to the first person that will listen. I don’t think there’s any meaning out of it in terms of you possibly getting a chance with her.
I don't know but I’ve had guys do this to me too and wondered the same thing. Perhaps motives vary.