Girls what does it mean when a girl tells you something that she's never told anyone else?

[JordanAldo]

I've been talking to this girl I met online, and we have gotten a long very well. And suddenly see told me this very deep personal thing in her life and she told me she didn't know why she told me because she has never told anyone that stuff. She also constantly says I'm a very nice person and a good listener. Why would she tell me that only after talking for a few hours?

[21_Thatonegirl21]

As others have said, she feels that she can trust you and open up to you. Especially, because you don't know each other in real life. It is easier to be honest with someone when they are behind a screen. Also, I don't know your relationship with this girl, but she could possibly like you. I highly value communication and truly being known in a relationship. Therefore, when I like a guy, I will easily open up to him.

[JordanAldo]

Thank you, your opinion is very helpful. I agree with the screen thing.

[ZELLxoxo]

She might see you as someone she would never have to see irl so it is easy to talk about things that trouble her without caring about the consequences

[JordanAldo]

Well in this case, I'm glad to say, there will be no negative consequences, only positive 😊😂

[Anonymous]

Well there can be many reasons but the 2 reasons I have done it, because I did in the past are:
1: You can tell your secrets more easily to a stranger because you know that you'll probably never meet that person so there is no reason to be ashamed, also you know that the person won't meet any relatives or friends and tell your secret to.

2: You just want attention so you tell the person you trust him or invent some secrets to gain sympathy and then the person will start showing some care and you may begin some online relationship.

[JordanAldo]

Okay, those are two very good points, thank you.

[Anonymity123999]

she doesn't have to see you in real life so it doesn't matter what she tells you. or you are not judgmental and she feels comfortable sharing with you. There is no risk because she could just cut you off if you negatively reacted

[JordanAldo]

That is very true, thanks for your insight.

[Screenwriter]

It's very easy to tell people you don't know and don't see private issues that trouble you. They won't be hurt by the information and may see an outcome or advice objectively. I wouldn't take it as anything more than that. Also, they may have wanted to share that with someone and had no one to tell it to. It doesn't mean you're special to them. You were just a convenient ear.

[JordanAldo]

Thanks, that makes me feel great. I'm glad I could be someone that she could just vent/rant to. I'm happy as long as I'm helping.

[btbc92]

It means you've gained her trust and that you don't hold malicious intent.

[JordanAldo]

I don't know what malicious means but I think what you just said was a compliment, so thank you 😊

[btbc92]

Malicious means something or a person is evil.

[JordanAldo]

Okay, yeah I'm not evil. Thanks

[1stranger]

She looks a bit like me.
So, I can tell you very briefly,
She trusts you. You listened to understand her. Feels close to you.

I don't know if you'd be a good lover, but I'm sure you'll be great friends.

[JordanAldo]

Thanks for you helpful opinion. Thank you, I think we'll be great friends, I'm not really looking for a relationship. But if I was in one, I'd treat my girlfriend like a queen, opening doors, taking her out, surprise dates, you know the whole lot 😊😁😂

[1stranger]

I can guess. I'm sure you'il be a good lover.
You're welcome🤗

[JordanAldo]

Thank you, hopefully one day I can prove it.

[derella21]

Cause she's venting and playing it out In Her mind, be kind and let her talk , she may reward u

[JordanAldo]

I have been kind, and I let her talk. I try and encourage her to let it all out, but at a pace she's comfortable with. And I let her know I'm here for her, even though I'm a stranger, I'll gladly care for her. And I don't care about a reward, I'm not it the helping business for rewards, I give, I don't expect anything in return.

[AiahZ]

That you're the only human being she's told that thing to? :)

[JordanAldo]

Yeah, I'm the only human being she's told, she might have told her dog 😂 but that doesn't count.

[Daniela1982]

She was lying. If she never told a close friend she would not tell a stranger.

[JordanAldo]

Fair enough. Thanks for the opinion.

[_sheeze]

Maybe she trusts you. But this situation fits in the phrase "its better to open up to a strangers" 'cause she doesn't know you and vice versa.

[JordanAldo]

Maybe, I am pretty trustworthy. Well I believe that anyway. Yeah, that would make sense.

[alice55]

That she trust you but it doesn't mean she have any romantic feelings for you.

[JordanAldo]

That's okay with me
I'm not looking for a relationship.

[alice55]

I was just telling in case. Some people can imagine things and after it lead to people getting hurt so I prefer warning people *-*

[JordanAldo]

That's very nice of you. Thank you 😊

[alice55]

You're welcome :)