Why do people think it’s normal for girls to get hurt by guys?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to this guy and he mentioned that I haven’t experienced the real world and because I’m a virgin the only guy I can get is a socially awkward ugly virgin. I get no one waits these days but that doesn’t mean I have to get the ugliest. Also he says I’m going to have to get hurt before I find someone who is right. I noticed a lot of people say it’s the norm you have to get hurt first um maybe for girls who don’t care. I rejected a lot of strange guys in the past due to their red flags. Let me stop typing I can see the comments attacking me already. I’m done

[sawno]

"because I’m a virgin the only guy I can get is a socially awkward ugly virgin" that is one of the most idiotic statements I heard in a while. Virgins have MORE value to men, not less. There are two types of men, those who value virginity (They will either seek a virgin to marry, or avoid having one night stands with virgins knowingly), and those who don't. Both groups will find you girlfriend material, while a girl who lost her virginity is only attractive to the group who doesn't value virginity (as much).

So the guy you are talking to has no idea what he is talking about or is being deliberately misleading.

[ChicoFromThe305]

People are just assholes, don't listen to what they say, you'll find someone worth it.

[InspireGlow678]

Don't listen to him, that's bullshit. Don't be upset.

[Anonymous]

It's normal for anyone, regardless of gender, to be hurt by the opposite gender at least once. There's a lot of shitty people out there.

[Danny_dan92]

I don’t