Do guys prefer popular/confident girls?

[Anonymous]

[SeymourBill420]

No, I would not want a popular girl. But I would definitely don't mind either way if she's confident or not as long as she's not cocky at it. But, I do like girls that are not really confident because I like to build up their confidence and then be her hero. Because there's a big difference in a girl's eyes smile and facial reaction when she's being told something she doesn't know versus when she's told something she knows very well. But, I think the majority of women have confidence issues because of all the makeup and cosmetics and all the desire for all the fakeness that they want nowadays. Fake nails fake color to your toenails or fingernails, fake eyebrows fake eyelashes fake boobs, fake ass when they go get botox injections in their butt cheeks and make their ass look ugly like they swallowed a spare tire and it got stuck in their ass. But that's that's a lack of confidence right there when girls do that. But it's a different type of lack of confidence. Because when girls do that shit they think it makes himself look good so it's a false confidence. I would rather have the girls that don't do that, that look like a normal plain Jane average girl next door that just walks out of the house every morning and opens up her eyes every single morning versus waste hours of her life in the bathroom smearing cancer causing shit all over her face and clogging her pores. Those are usually the ones that don't think they're beautiful and those are the ones that I want to put up on a pedestal and make them feel like a goddess every single day.

And there's a reason why I wouldn't want popular, because that means I'm taking quite a few back seats and, I want to be exclusive like how she's going to be with me. It's okay to have friends it's okay to go out and do things, but popular usually means that they're growing out all the time and hanging around with somebody all the time and that could be other than your significant other. Or, popular girls usually turn into the skanks that you find dancing on the tables at the club listen to that horrific music 300 men fantasizing about her

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Not sure about popular. That sounds a bit high school-ish. Confident, absolutely. The woman who has been my wife for nearly 20 years was confident enough to give me her number and the rest is history.

[sage2021]

Well, at first they do until he ends up with a smart one. Then he get's turned off because they are confident and smart and he doesn't measure up to her capabilities - he's can't come up the winner with a girl always showing him up on what he doesn't know. So he breaks up with her. Oh well.

[FreyaRed]

Yes. Men love to brag with their girlfriends. Self-confident girlfriend with many admirers among men and women is better to boost their vain egos than a submissive gray mice nobody ever notices.

[Guccigabbana18]

Some men care about popularity. Usually it's men who care a great deal about their own popularity who would want to date another popular person. But someone who isn't that bothered about their own popularity won't care.

As for confidence, that probably matters more. Confidence (whether quiet or loud confidence) is attractive to both genders.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't care if you're popular or not, i do like confident though. Online popularity is a huge detractor, I'm talking about real life popularity.

[_Maya_]

I walk around with Influencer stamped on my forehead and a t-shirt with a huge U on it.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@_Maya_ Yeah, you know what, I caveat my prior statement. G@G popular doesn't bother me. WHen you're instagram is the center of your life and everything has to be paused so you can take the perfect picture of it first... THAT'S what I had in mind when I wrote that, and that's a no go. I've dated a newspaper column writer that got recognized a lot when we went out and seemingly knew everybody. That wasn't obnoxious because she kept it reigned in for the most part when we were together. I've dated some people that were big in their respective fields so at conferences and whatnot they were popular. That doesn't bother me either.

I wear my big tshirt with U on it because they said i had to wear it to hide the ugliness beneath. I told my boss I wasn't getting her a Boss Appreciation Day present this year.

The thing stamped on MY forehead is in Kanji, which I can't read. I'm sure it says Noble One or something like that. That's what the nice man in the truck said it meant at least

[BoopBoopBeep]

*your

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[Anonymous]

I don't care about popular. I'm fine either way.

Confident is nice, but not a high priority.

I care much more about her personality, her heart, her values, her world view, her sense of humor, her sexuality, her goals and priorities in life.

[Anonymous]

I'm like the Lifetime Movie Network creepy guy. I almost never talk... but I'm ALWAYS watching and listening. If you lined up 10 females from 10 different countries and had them socialize for 20 seconds, I could point out the one from the USA EVERY TIME. She'd be the one with the"look at me, I'm so great" attitude that you describe. Like a big huge siren going off after a goal scored. That'd be the 1 I make sure to avoid, and to give off an aura to make sure she avoids me.🤝

[Yoda0334]

Yeah, I dated a girl who had 0 confidence in herself. It bothered me quite a lot I tried my best and I didn't care that much. It is not that I am the most confident guy either. But, it is not like I would Reject a girl because of that unless she begins to take her lack of confidence on me.

[sawno]

I prefer a smart, uplifting, geeky interests, chatty girl.
Ill leave the definitions you chose up to you if that fits or not.

[sheikalana]

A lot of men prefer the quiet low profile girl. All men are different.

[HawkPerception]

I think confidence is a trait everyone tends to like

[RebelinSteel]

Everyone is different, I do but someone else might not.

[DextroShade]

No, I prefer quiet girls who don't like to attract a lot of attention to themselves. Being popular and confident only makes you attractive if you are a man.

[patrick994]

she Doesn't have to be popular, but confident yes

[Yannae]

Confident yes. Confident is a big maybe. Some are popular because of their obnoxious character or because they're fake. I avoid those like the plague.

[Yannae]

... Popular... I meant popular.

[HighlyQuestionable]

Confident, Yes.

Popular, Not particularly.

[pickles77]

Not particularly. As long as she can feel confident and happy in our relationship I don’t really care about anything else.

[AngryCarl]

Yes we do. We're like sheep in the sense that we all follow the one hot girl around.

[Anonymous]

Not as much much as women prefer popular/confident guys, but yes.

[IslaTheWitch]

Confidence rates high...

[Billlewis]

Yes, absolutely.

[AmeerX]

Confident yes, popular maybe not

[Notherndude84]

I like confident women.

[Jltakk]

Not really, it can easily teeter on overbearing.

[boggboss]

Depends on the guy

[systemsareyo]

Sometimes I do

[DreamLife7]

Yes..

[rebeliouse]

it helps

[Derrickson]

No they don’t