What should I do in this situation?

[Anonymous]

He identified that I love him before I even identified my own feelings. He said that I love him and he is willing to do anything for me. I haven't discovered my feelings at that point and told him that I don't love him at all and he was hurt and blocked me. He started distancing himself away from me. I realised lately that I love him too. But he's not in my life anymore. Now I'm more hurt than him and can't get over the fact that he distanced himself from me and I wanna feel his love again as before when he was in my life. What should I do?

[IslaTheWitch]

Are you really in love with him, or have you just adapted his narrative?

Try to recognize your own feelings. Do you miss him or the attention you got?

[Asker]

I miss the attention and him

[IslaTheWitch]

You avoided the first question. A missing answer is also an answer.

Move on. Meet more people, make friends, have a good time. Observe people and don't choose the first attention-giver you meet. Take your time.

[Asker]

I avoided because I am hurt now and can't really decide if I should love him or not

[Anonymous]

Live, learn and move on with your life.

[Asker]

It hurts

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I understand. But what else can you do?

[Asker]

I can't do anything else