Are less exprienced men more likely to commit to one girl?

[Vegasrunner]

[MrOracle]

Sometimes, but not necessarily.

To clarify, men who hold strong traditional morals and values are much more likely than average to have a low body count themselves. But, not all guys who have a low body count have strong traditional morals and values - some just aren't able to attract women. That's why this is not a great thing to use as a guide or standard.

Instead, focus directly on the things that matter: your (potential) partner's morals, values, and life-goals. Those are the things that will dictate whether or not you can sustain a relationship long-term. Money, good looks, enjoying the same music or movies, social status - none of these things will be able to sustain a relationship if the morals, values, and life-goals aren't aligned.

[Vegasrunner]

@MrOracle TY for the response but not sure what it has to do w/ the question morality is rarely the pre-requisite for men to be successful w/ women. If a man doesn't have experience, and he only has one women is he more likely to be committed. Pretty straightforward question. The dancing around it is an indicator that the answer is yes, however it hurts the "feeling" of the belief that men w/ options will stay faithful to only one woman.

[MrOracle]

I'm not saying that morality is necessary for men to be successful with women - it's the opposite for most women today, as women overwhelmingly choose the bad boys. They see good guys as BORING.

But for the women who actually want a serious relationship, and especially a husband, picking a bad boy will doom their relationship, if you can even call it that. The point is that a completely different approach is required if a woman wants a serious relationship, vs just attracting a guy for casual sex.

[Vegasrunner]

@MrOracle The question was are less experienced men more likely to commit to one girl. The focus on "women who actually want a serious relationship" doesn't have any relevance. If you have an answer and supporting facts to the original question, I'm happy to hear. TY.

[MrOracle]

I answered the original question: "it depends". And since that was not really a helpful answer, I expanded things to not only clarify what I meant, but to explain what WAS relevant. It may not be the answer you wanted, but hopefully it helps someone. It's the best I can do.

[Vegasrunner]

@MrOracle TY for your contribution, however that doesn't address the question. Thanks

[Anonymous]

I don’t think it’s a lack of experience. Because if that was true every man at one time in their life had no experience so we would have all committed to one girl from the start. I think it’s more so their options. If he’s not that good looking his chances of having a good pool to chose from aren’t as great as opposed to a dude who has women tripping over each other to get to him.

[Libidononexistenteww]

Well my boyfriend all his exes had to fake it he was sloppy drunk he can be hot I guess he has changed so much and says I don’t know him lol my therapist said u can’t he’s scum lol lies but no he isn’t very wild Or good at stuff like too much dirty talk or porn he shuts down he’s a pussy and then he’s scum he’s the most selfish (what man gives up wild sex when stressed)! They embrace it he can each penne his girl he doesn’t he’s a weird scared liar he’s lied about things always he’s closed up so like I am thrilled he is asleep but yest he promised 4 hours of sex couldn’t have one lol today too

He’s seen so much porn I was appalled his brain is fucked but I am basically if I wanted and cokdbrnw men but I am a porn star and I’m not enough he wants 6!8’ch heels kewther skirts but begs me to get stuff I wear it and the limp loser goes to bed

[Libidononexistenteww]

U never r committed or happy lol so
But I’m glad I am gonna five u respect like u do me
Oh cuddling is too much it’s like I have a vag

[laly520]

not necessarily
those who has less experience tend to be more curious n less loyal at times

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 If they're inexperienced how are they going to be able to get another woman?

[laly520]

they would still try to get a one

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 They would have had to put in a ton of work just to get the one they have, why would they spend additional time and resources to get another one?

[laly520]

its what I noticed in some of those guys they won't mind putting effort to get more attention from girls

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 if they are less experienced how are you noticing them?

[laly520]

I have such type in my close circle, my bff is one

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 That's a statistically insignificant number and it still doesn't address the question. Does your best friend have a girlfriend that he cheats on?

[laly520]

not sure of the cheating part but he has a girlfriend yet flirts around with other girls

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 OH, and this is the first girlfriend he's ever had? How old is he?

[laly520]

the first yes
he is 23

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 So that kind of proves my point. He's only been able to get one girl in 23 years, and hasn't cheated on her even though you claim he " flirts" w/ other girls? Is his girlfriend also a friend of yours?

[laly520]

yes she is my friend

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 Lol, I figured so unfortunately that wouldn't be a good examble. For starters he doesn't have a girl friend he's in what I call an exclusive friend zone. He hangs around in a circle hoping to date one of the girls. The fact that this is his "first girlfriend" tells me he doesn't have the ability to organically attract women which means it's unlikely he will ever leave her. She will end up eventually breaking up w/ him partly due to the fact that you're mistakenly claiming he's flirting w/ women. This is a reason why I tell guys not to get into relationships w/ girls in friend groups, because he's inexperienced he doesn't understand this.

[laly520]

it is his girlfriend not an exclusive friend zone

[laly520]

and no im not mistaken
he is flirting with others

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 Are they sexually active? Did he have the girlfriend first and then introduce her to you or were you all friends when they got together?

[laly520]

they r sexually active, we were all friends even before they get together

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 So this would seem to mean that the answer is yes? He's not able to get sex from other women so even though he flirts he won't leave thus remaining committed.

[genericname85]

i don't think that your experience or lack thereof has an influence on your standards when it comes to relationships.

like just cause a guy can fuck many girls in theory cause he can get laid easily doesn't mean he has to. and just cause a guy finds it difficult to get laid, doesn't mean he can't still try a lot and still get laid more than the guy from the opposite example.

[Vegasrunner]

@genericname85 What does that have to do with the question?

[genericname85]

Was your question not about experience and commitment?

[Vegasrunner]

@genericname85 Yes. It simply requires a yes or no answer. Did you read the correct question?

[genericname85]

if you wanted a yes or no answer, you could have made a poll. sorry for elaborating on a thing that i thought was more complex than a yes or no. feel free to block me if you don't apreciate the effort.

[Vegasrunner]

@genericname85 You never gave a yes or no for starters but your elaboration is bizzare. It contains two hypothetical situations based on nothing. If a man is inexperienced, "trying to get laid" isn't relevant to if he will stay committed to one women. Logically if a man doesn't have much experience he's more likely to settle for one woman. If there's a sound alternative I'm all ears but false hypotherical situations dose not seem to be one.

[Drewtate]

Mote likely to shack up with the first chick he meets even if she is low value

[Pohjolan]

Fuckboys are bound to drag the average towards a yes.

[Roudyrebel8]

Personally I don't think so

[Vegasrunner]

@roudyrebel8 why?

[Roudyrebel8]

I feel that you'll either be committed to one person or you won't. I don't think experience has any thing to do with it

[Vegasrunner]

@roudyrebel8 I'm speaking about reality though. If a man only has been able to get one girl, how could he be uncommitted?