Why do girls complain about dating when they have it so easy getting relationships or being provided?

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One of my friends was dating and hooking up with men... she dated sports stars, military officers, restaurant owners, and businessmen in a just few months. They provided her with a great lifestyle... I don't think any man can pull that off and live such expensively without having to do any work. A large majority of girls live off such lifestyles and women complain about dating.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

most women and girls have extremely absurd, high expectations in relationships. Many females even think handsome, funny, educated, in shape guys as "not good enough. Mix modern day feminist extremism and emasculating guys with the whole LGBTQ+ and feminist movement and women and girls say "I want a man" but then say "we need to dominate guys". Women are confused they don't know what they want. It's funny that a man or guy can hold down a job and work 60 hrs and not make an excuse of "I'm focusing on my career". It seems to me, besides players who sleep around with other women, guys and men want to have children and get married, love his wife and kids, it makes life meaningful, it makes life special.

But when women say they have to focus on their career, they obsess about it and delay life. Attractive women 99.9% of the time make poor decisions, date the wrong guys, marry the wrong guys and just like how guys have to go through the pain of rejections and his screw ups in life, same goes for females. Women have to stop fighting with guys and men on this topic. They have to look at themselves in the mirror and admit to their faults. Guys and men have to look at their faults but its hypocrisy when someone says look at yourself, when they commit the same mistakes. That's like someone who does heavy drugs, "bro don't do drugs you're gonna mess up your life take some accountability"... Meanwhile that person giving that "advice" is doing the same thing.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

that's an extreme. you are right, most men can't do that... unless they are visiting "red light district". women generally can't do that. so touchee!!!

they complain because they are girls, they are at reproductive hormonal stage of life and they like to complain. get used to it and enjoy it. their bodies know they have about 20 years to reproduce... and that's it... they are gonners. for whatever the reason, such cells and bacteria are focusd on propagation of self unless the mind finds another mission. And so, they get frustrated at not getting what they want and deserve and need.

So have some compassion...

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

A SMALL MINORITY of women have such lifestyles. This is anecdotal. It is ONE story about ONE woman.

I've lived a lot longer than you, and the only women living like this are high-class prostitutes and high-brow mistresses. Both are rarities.

Women talk a lot about WANTING to have such lifestyles, but these lifestyles also entail being at the beck and call of a man who is more than likely married with children and can only see you when you fit into HIS schedule.

And you're required to be his alone, not have anyone else on the side, because he's paying your way. You're "kept." Sounds like a fancy prison. Can you hang out with friends when you want? No. He might call and ask you to accompany him to a concert, the opera, a film opening, a dinner that his wife won't be able to for some reason.

So, you're on speed dial and have to drop everything do be by his side. You can't use that cash account to head off to hawaii, unless you're going to hawaii with him. You can't take a girls' trip, or an alone trip. You're a fancy sex slave.

There are men who also live such lifestyles. Most of them might be gay men, but I bet there are straight ones too. But this is the demimonde. An underworld of people.

If you're an honest, upright woman's looking for love and companionship, not a free ride, the dating world is just as complicated as it is for men.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

That is only if you are gorgeous, have charisma, know how to manipulate and are willing to be slutty enough. Not all woman get the top dudes. Most of the time we get stuck with the leftover trash 30 other hoes didn't want, and we don't want them either lol

ManOnFire · Answer

Do they? It seems to be that women make wrong decisions with dating more often than good ones, bringing their own selves pain and disappointment with men. As @lightbulb27 put it, it's in their nature to complain and have a propagation of self. Women  knowingly  choose to date/have sex with men who are not good quality, or they do it for the thrill of being able to say they got some high flying dude they don't even really care about.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

As much as I don't feel bad for woman because I think they have it way easier and largely aren't capable of a real relationship, they do have some pretty shitty dating options.

It reminds me of an ex I had who went for a jocky type of dude who had a lot of money. I tried to warn her about him but she thought I was just being jealous, then a week later, she ended up with this guy who was pretty much a loser, like I was offended that she dated him lol

Anyway, I asked her why she kept picking such shitty guys she was like "look at what I've got to work with" I know who is around her and that's when it clicked. They were kinda her best options lol.

Damm I really was the best thing that ever happened to that girl

DextroShade · Answer

Women will hook up with top level men not knowing they are seen as recreational use only by them. They then think that they are entitled to commitment from that level of man even though in reality most of them only qualify for average men. So now because she had a fling with an athlete, celebrity, or some other top dude that one time she now thinks the average man is beneath her. So she keeps chasing top-level men and continues to get pumped and dumped while racking up a body count that makes her unable to pair-bond. Then she dies alone.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

Well men and women are simply not the same. Women have a different set of challenges even though they have easier access to relationships.

Traditionally we still have the value the man should be a provider and a woman the caregiver. In some aspect that still holds true. Nowadays though men are just as manipulative as a "experienced" woman is.

How many men will say and do absolutely anything to have sex then leave? I know plenty. Ultimately we want different things from each other and our approach to that is opposite because we're different.

RavenDarkheart · Answer

We have it easy? Yeah, if we want to settle for guys who won’t support themselves, try to cheat on us and / or treat us like crap. But, those of us with higher standards and won’t compromise, it’s a little more difficult.

devilish-cutie · Answer

We dont have it easier, we can only get sex easier, not relationship or any respectful type of treatement. Those that "get provided" pay with sex for it.

Pohjolan · Answer

A combination of cognitive dissonance and victim culture.

They don't want to admit to others or even themselves that they have it in this regard easier both compared to men and women of previous generations.

The_Canddyman · Answer

Women do have it so easy. Funny watching all these women complain about it. Women control the dating market. Talk to anybody in it. The fact they pick horrible matches and hook up with them is what ruins the culture.
Now remember there are good women looking for good men, that too is ruined by trashy women.

bobalife · Answer

Sure it can be easy to go on a date or meet those with great occupations by your prompt. But finding a compatible and good quality partner is a different concern that everyone goes through with dating.

MsElizabeth96 · Answer

I Mean, I'm happy for your friend, but this is not the case for 'a large majority of women'😬

mobiusforniner · Answer

How about focus on yourself instead of worrying about who has it easy and who has to work harder? Some people take the easy road. Some don’t. Don’t compare.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I know of a guy who got women contacting him every time he became single, so it must be easy for men to date. I don't get why they complain so much. It's so easy.

Sour-rose · Answer

Yeaah... if that bish is hella pretty. But if not... she will complain because it's not that easy. :)

Miristheiss · Answer

Because the guys won't commit. The guys use them for sex and leave them or they can't get the guy they want.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

So, did you generalize based on one girl? Nice :D Most women don't hookup

confusedandromantic · Answer

In the town I live in, a lot of guys (not all but some!) are either cheating on their partners, players who hookup or date and then ghost or who just want sex. Sex? Yes for a woman is accessible. But dating? That’s another kettle of fish

AmyHew1tt · Answer

Never known it to be easy unless you're lucky.

DreamLife7 · Answer

Bc we don't settle. Just bc ur a man doesn't mean we are supposed to say yes to you. We want quality not trash

Monalisa77 · Answer

Erm I've never been asked out not sure how i have it easy? Lol

boobliker · Answer

that's what been trained into them by mums complaining about how bad dad is! so it just goes on round a round. me I live alone and my girlfriend stays over 6 nights a week.

dream18128 · Answer

I think you mean conventionally attractive women, same to men, both genders have high standards shoved onto them and people will rarely choose someone that isn’t physically attractive

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

I don't know where you're getting this idea. Countless men have it easy and countless women don't. This isn't gender specific.

Anonymous · Answer

Earth calling! You are obviously living on another planet.

nativehoosier · Answer

Since women have all the advantages with sex and dating, men are the ones with real reason to complain.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't complain. I know I'm beautiful. Guys are always saying so.

CozyCoffin · Answer

Quantity doesn’t mean quality.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe

Roudyrebel8 · Answer

Not all do

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