Should men ask about a woman's weight and breast size on dating apps?

[neilsmart]

[WhiteSteve]

Maybe I’m just an old chunk of coal, but I was raised to believe that you never ask a woman her weight or her age. I guess age is handled on those apps, right? Like it tells you on the profile?

But weight…. seems like a dick move. I’d say we should probably be honest about how we present ourselves, like don’t post pictures showing our bodies 30 lbs ago, lmao, not even for them, but to avoid our own embarrassment. I wouldn’t put pics of myself looking one way and show up looking another way. I never understand why I hear so many people do that. Like do they just hope to get their foot in the door and the other person won’t care because they’ll be so blown away by what an awesome person they are? I wish most of our personalities were that impressive😂 We can positively call it “having standards” or negatively call it “being shallow”, but either way, it is what it is, so just roll with it, you know? Haha…. but still…. even if we are swiping right or left based at least in some part on appearance, it feels kind gross to be like “ok, so before we go out…. do you PROMISE this is exactly what you look like?”

So…. I wouldn’t ask, and I wouldn’t misrepresent myself in my own profile

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

if I was ever in the dating pool again, I honestly don't think I would use dating apps. Both sides are always gonna be guessing whether or not they're attracted to each other. Think I would simply prefer to meet someone face-to-face by surprise/chance.
if my only options were a dating app, I would see if she peaked my interest and move on from there. No need to get all the details right away.

[Rosexøxø]

I always saw it as rude…

like some Indian guys I would exchange with in the past, would be like:

Name

age

height

bra size

- and I almost laughed, at one point. Felt like I was filing for some government papers or so. It was so formal and seemingly ‘judgy.’

Regardless of size- huge Mama or petite Polly- they shouldn’t have to ask.

Although… if it is based on attraction and being online, guys can’t see the girl much as in person, I suppose it’s alright.

Ask because it’s a free country. Ask because ya just gotta know.

BUT

ask politely and humanely because they’re still a person you know… and be ready to share that info as well.

[lilyanony1]

They shouldn't but what they do is ask for a full body pic. Whether you're clothes or not. That way they can decide if you're too fat for them.
Most apps give them your height so they can judge very quickly if that means you're a right match once they see your pic...
Women forget men are visual. Does it stop you from being insulted no.. I think if you meet someone and they're like this avoid. Because if they want something long term and real. They'll come to understand that everyone gets wider and saggy as we grow old.

[AviatorTom]

Sure, but only if she asks first about his weight and penis size.

[coachTanthony]

Yes if women want to know a man's height and how much he makes it's only fair if women have the essentials for proper procreation. Ask away.

[AnotherDay88]

If you met a woman in a bar and asked her for her bra size, she would punch you in the face.
Don't do online what you wouldn't do in real life. It's that simple.

[coachTanthony]

@AnotherDay88 These are dating apps not real life.

[AnotherDay88]

What’s the difference? Aren’t women on dating apps real? Don’t you plan on meeting them
in real life?
I’m baffled how some people think that totally unacceptable behavior online will yield them good results in real life.

[Becky316]

He can, but if e were to ask me that, I'm asking about his cock size with proof. Proof of income, house, car, retirement, bank account, money in wallet. Basically all his personal info. If you wanna judge me, then get ready for the colonoscopy worth of questions I've got for you!

[RoseySarah]

Good some one took my answer!
Also proof you were not the crazy one in the last relationship

[Anonymous]

Not really a great idea. First, girls are likely to lie or fib anyway, so asking the question doesn't really give you the information you're looking for--you're going to have to see her for yourself. Secondly, in asking there's a good chance you could put off a girl who might otherwise be a good match. That is, she could be thin/fit and have BIG natural boobs, but if you ask about it, she may think, "what if he ONLY wants me for my boobs and awesome body? I'd better not continue with this guy."

So yeah--it's a terrible idea.

[Katebfun]

Exactly 💯

[Opinion Owner]

@Katebfun Thanks! This one seems pretty obvious!

[Angxl3120]

Weight is still out of hand, you can literally figure out her weight by looking at their pfp.

And if breast size is mentioned, now you know what that guy wants.

[neilsmart]

so you think guys should ask

[Angxl3120]

No..

[Asad1ONE1]

The question assumes most women care about finding tall partners when I'm fact most don't even care lol.

[TheorionMage]

WHY? Are you 'dating' by size & pound?.
Reciprocity! Would YOU provide notarized testimonials on personal wealth, cock size and staying power? WHY should she 'merchandize' her self if YOU won't!

[D_Bone_Steak]

Ha! I only ask that stuff because it's an easy way to tell her she's a fucking reject. I wouldn't say that to a chick I'm interested in though. Women do it too, in their own way. I roll my eyes at every chick that starts asking questions that have to do with making money.

[Daniela1982]

Only desperate women would replay to that query. In fact, your profile will probably be shit canned.

[Lionman95]

What´s the point of asking those questions? If it benefits them and helps them find a date or partner, yes maybe? If it´s just something stupid since women want to know how tall a guy the answer is no.
I´ve never asked those questions because I don´t see a point in doing so.

[andreasderjuengere]

Let ''us'' ask if it's relevant to one of ''us''.

SHOULD --> not as in standard 'set of questions'

In real life we would not approach a girl that isn't appealing to us.

On a dating app it's tricky: Filters, outdated photos, euphemistic self descriptions and such may distort our perception.

[EmmaMary]

Personally I consider inappropriate and completely unnecessary.

[progboy]

It's not really appropriate to ask straight off the bat and probably won't get you very far if you do. I have asked before but only after getting to know the woman a bit and at an appropriate time i. e. when talk has turned towards more sexual things.

[HawkPerception]

I've never asked a girl's weight on a dating app and no... I don't think weight should be be asked about. You should judge based on pictures and meeting in person whether the person is a right "fit" for you 😂

[HouseMoat]

Only if it's ok for a woman to ask a mans height and dick size (not that you need to be getting that personal that quick but), yeah, if it's ok to ask a woman her weight and breast size, why isn't it ok for a woman to ask a mans height and dick size right off the bat

[Hannajenky]

Do you ask someone what size their breasts are when you first meet them at a party, or at work, or anywhere? Why is a dating app any different

[neilsmart]

but do you judge guys on their height?

[Hannajenky]

You can see how tall someone is when you meet them, and you can see how they present themselves, and you can see if they look like a heroine addict or if they are extremely overweight.

What is your point. People judge people and make decisions based on those judgements.

If you’re mad that some particular woman is judging you based on your height, get over it.

[Asad1ONE1]

I'm in utter shock it's a woman writing this question in defense of men LOL

[Date_a_Snob]

Im obviously not a size two. when I was on a few diffrent dating apps I had guys make some comments although none never asked me weight or size directly

[Date_a_Snob]

why did you draw chokers on their necks?

[Amur8711]

She loves chokers, she believes women should wear them tight so when the get ther throat fucked it restricts their throat from expanding and squeeze his cock more. Lol

[neilsmart]

@Amur8711 it makes the guy's cock feel good

[rigmarole]

It's not any different than asking about a man's height. If you think it's OK to ask about his physical measurements in any way, then you should be OK with him asking about your physical measurements.

[normalice]

It is the same as any other question on dating apps. If the girl isn't into a conversation she can simply cut off contact with the guy. And the fact is some girls are into being asked things like that.

[Nikki1989]

That is rude, inappropriate, invasive, and irrelevant.

[Ms_Facesitter]

If they really care about it, why not. That way you know what they find important.