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But weight…. seems like a dick move. I’d say we should probably be honest about how we present ourselves, like don’t post pictures showing our bodies 30 lbs ago, lmao, not even for them, but to avoid our own embarrassment. I wouldn’t put pics of myself looking one way and show up looking another way. I never understand why I hear so many people do that. Like do they just hope to get their foot in the door and the other person won’t care because they’ll be so blown away by what an awesome person they are? I wish most of our personalities were that impressive😂 We can positively call it “having standards” or negatively call it “being shallow”, but either way, it is what it is, so just roll with it, you know? Haha…. but still…. even if we are swiping right or left based at least in some part on appearance, it feels kind gross to be like “ok, so before we go out…. do you PROMISE this is exactly what you look like?”
So…. I wouldn’t ask, and I wouldn’t misrepresent myself in my own profile
if I was ever in the dating pool again, I honestly don't think I would use dating apps. Both sides are always gonna be guessing whether or not they're attracted to each other. Think I would simply prefer to meet someone face-to-face by surprise/chance.
if my only options were a dating app, I would see if she peaked my interest and move on from there. No need to get all the details right away.
I always saw it as rude…
like some Indian guys I would exchange with in the past, would be like:
Name
age
height
bra size
- and I almost laughed, at one point. Felt like I was filing for some government papers or so. It was so formal and seemingly ‘judgy.’
Regardless of size- huge Mama or petite Polly- they shouldn’t have to ask.
Although… if it is based on attraction and being online, guys can’t see the girl much as in person, I suppose it’s alright.
Ask because it’s a free country. Ask because ya just gotta know.
BUT
ask politely and humanely because they’re still a person you know… and be ready to share that info as well.
They shouldn't but what they do is ask for a full body pic. Whether you're clothes or not. That way they can decide if you're too fat for them.
Most apps give them your height so they can judge very quickly if that means you're a right match once they see your pic...
Women forget men are visual. Does it stop you from being insulted no.. I think if you meet someone and they're like this avoid. Because if they want something long term and real. They'll come to understand that everyone gets wider and saggy as we grow old.
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Sure, but only if she asks first about his weight and penis size.
Yes if women want to know a man's height and how much he makes it's only fair if women have the essentials for proper procreation. Ask away.
If you met a woman in a bar and asked her for her bra size, she would punch you in the face.
Don't do online what you wouldn't do in real life. It's that simple.
@AnotherDay88 These are dating apps not real life.
What’s the difference? Aren’t women on dating apps real? Don’t you plan on meeting them
in real life?
I’m baffled how some people think that totally unacceptable behavior online will yield them good results in real life.
He can, but if e were to ask me that, I'm asking about his cock size with proof. Proof of income, house, car, retirement, bank account, money in wallet. Basically all his personal info. If you wanna judge me, then get ready for the colonoscopy worth of questions I've got for you!
Good some one took my answer!
Also proof you were not the crazy one in the last relationship
Not really a great idea. First, girls are likely to lie or fib anyway, so asking the question doesn't really give you the information you're looking for--you're going to have to see her for yourself. Secondly, in asking there's a good chance you could put off a girl who might otherwise be a good match. That is, she could be thin/fit and have BIG natural boobs, but if you ask about it, she may think, "what if he ONLY wants me for my boobs and awesome body? I'd better not continue with this guy."
So yeah--it's a terrible idea.
@Katebfun Thanks! This one seems pretty obvious!
Weight is still out of hand, you can literally figure out her weight by looking at their pfp.
And if breast size is mentioned, now you know what that guy wants.
WHY? Are you 'dating' by size & pound?.
Reciprocity! Would YOU provide notarized testimonials on personal wealth, cock size and staying power? WHY should she 'merchandize' her self if YOU won't!
Ha! I only ask that stuff because it's an easy way to tell her she's a fucking reject. I wouldn't say that to a chick I'm interested in though. Women do it too, in their own way. I roll my eyes at every chick that starts asking questions that have to do with making money.
What´s the point of asking those questions? If it benefits them and helps them find a date or partner, yes maybe? If it´s just something stupid since women want to know how tall a guy the answer is no.
I´ve never asked those questions because I don´t see a point in doing so.
Let ''us'' ask if it's relevant to one of ''us''.
SHOULD --> not as in standard 'set of questions'
In real life we would not approach a girl that isn't appealing to us.
On a dating app it's tricky: Filters, outdated photos, euphemistic self descriptions and such may distort our perception.
Only desperate women would replay to that query. In fact, your profile will probably be shit canned.
That is rude, inappropriate, invasive, and irrelevant.
I've never asked a girl's weight on a dating app and no... I don't think weight should be be asked about. You should judge based on pictures and meeting in person whether the person is a right "fit" for you 😂
Personally I consider inappropriate and completely unnecessary.
It's not really appropriate to ask straight off the bat and probably won't get you very far if you do. I have asked before but only after getting to know the woman a bit and at an appropriate time i. e. when talk has turned towards more sexual things.
Only if it's ok for a woman to ask a mans height and dick size (not that you need to be getting that personal that quick but), yeah, if it's ok to ask a woman her weight and breast size, why isn't it ok for a woman to ask a mans height and dick size right off the bat
Do you ask someone what size their breasts are when you first meet them at a party, or at work, or anywhere? Why is a dating app any different
You can see how tall someone is when you meet them, and you can see how they present themselves, and you can see if they look like a heroine addict or if they are extremely overweight.
What is your point. People judge people and make decisions based on those judgements.
If you’re mad that some particular woman is judging you based on your height, get over it.
Im obviously not a size two. when I was on a few diffrent dating apps I had guys make some comments although none never asked me weight or size directly
why did you draw chokers on their necks?
It's not any different than asking about a man's height. If you think it's OK to ask about his physical measurements in any way, then you should be OK with him asking about your physical measurements.
It is the same as any other question on dating apps. If the girl isn't into a conversation she can simply cut off contact with the guy. And the fact is some girls are into being asked things like that.
If they really care about it, why not. That way you know what they find important.
Not in my opinion. It's a bit shallow to base everything off her proportions without having a chance to meet her first
No. Its rude and unnecessary. Dating profiles have photos and a guy can get a sense of weight and breast size.
Why not? I'm a fat bitch. I find that being honest about how I look ensures I only get guys who are into it. Although I'd love to have a guy humiliate me sexually for catfishing
I dono people like to ask pretty outrageous things but get upset when they themself get asked stuff I think its either u don't ask anything too personal or anything is on the table
Should they? No. Can they? In all fairness, they get asked a lot about their height (not sure about 🍆 size), so I'd say ask if you get asked.
I would immediately unmatch them if they asked such thing.
If they want to be blocked and ignored maybe. Otherwise they better be able come up with better things to ask.
Only after they have asked us critical dimensions, like height, weight and dicque dimensions. Don't you agree? And, Chivalry dictates Ladies get to ask first.
Yes, if they feel it's acceptable to ask a man's height and financial situation. Turn about is fair play.
No, because men do not care about those things. Basically asking am man's height and financial situation is akin to asking her about her weight. Because of the feelings both questions generate in the sexes.. So while granted they are different things, men see a woman asking his height and financial situation the same as a woman sees a man asking her weight. You can disagree with this all you like, it does not change facts.
I am small everywhere but I will tell him whatever he wants to know. No one ever asked my weight but you can see I'm not heavy in my pictures. If I have chemistry with the guy I might say, "are you big?" in a flirty way.
If that's what's important to him he should and if it bothers the girl he's talking to that he puts so much weight on that versus other things that make people compatible, she should un-match him.
You can ask but, unless they are beautiful, they will lie.
If a woman asks a man's height she best be ready for him to ask her weight. Of the 2 weight is controllable.
If you think those numbers are important to know before hand. They should be included in your dating profile. Probably you wouldn’t get many responses.
Yes.
Women say they want a man of at least a certain height and income so it is only fair.
Coffee dates are for figuring out if you have been catfished before a regular date.
No, I would never ask a woman’s weight. I might ask her breast size if we start dating but not on an app. I wouldn’t use an app anyway since anyone can put anything on an app.
Yes, they need to know what they are getting
No they should also ask about women's height. I know I do. Don't anyone think for ONE SECOND men don't have height preference lol.
Only if he wants toi guaranty a 99% rejection rate.
It maybe weird in real world but yeah I guess dating apps has different rules... People sext on dating apps so
sure if they're also comfortable for her asking his dick size & weight
Yeah it's just okay.. I don't get why people get so sensitive and icky about it..
Hey if they could do that we can ask about their height and weight too
People don't talk to me on dating apps. No because nobody ever responds or messages me.
What's with you and chokers lol?
Gotta love sub girls
If it's something I want to know im gonna ask just like how the first question a girl ask is what do you do for a living
Not really, unless they want to be asked about their height and dick size. Who wants to date a sort guy with a worm 🪱 dick lol
😆😆😆 women can't even be honest about what they share already you really think they're going to be honest about that? 🤣🤣🤣
No, they shouldn't. You are looking for a woman, not a sex toy made to order
Was never about you. It ms about his needs and wants FYI.
We can usually guess based on pictures, so there is no need.
No, they shouldn't just like we shouldn't be asking for guys height and dick size
Men should stay off dating apps completely, ESPECIALLY Western men.
Yes if the woman can ask his height then he can in return too
Well charge some money for answeing that kind of questions. Nothing is free
I don't think it's really needed.
It's going to come off as he only wants sex.
@Asad1ONE1 yeah only trash people use dating apps
@Asad1ONE1 bro who do u think they're having sex with? 💀
For men height yes dick size no. For women weight yes breast size no.
they always do n its creepy
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