Should men ask about a woman's weight and breast size on dating apps?

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WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

Maybe I’m just an old chunk of coal, but I was raised to believe that you never ask a woman her weight or her age. I guess age is handled on those apps, right? Like it tells you on the profile?

But weight…. seems like a dick move. I’d say we should probably be honest about how we present ourselves, like don’t post pictures showing our bodies 30 lbs ago, lmao, not even for them, but to avoid our own embarrassment. I wouldn’t put pics of myself looking one way and show up looking another way. I never understand why I hear so many people do that. Like do they just hope to get their foot in the door and the other person won’t care because they’ll be so blown away by what an awesome person they are? I wish most of our personalities were that impressive😂 We can positively call it “having standards” or negatively call it “being shallow”, but either way, it is what it is, so just roll with it, you know? Haha…. but still…. even if we are swiping right or left based at least in some part on appearance, it feels kind gross to be like “ok, so before we go out…. do you PROMISE this is exactly what you look like?”

So…. I wouldn’t ask, and I wouldn’t misrepresent myself in my own profile

MiddleAgedClimbee · Accepted Answer

if I was ever in the dating pool again, I honestly don't think I would use dating apps. Both sides are always gonna be guessing whether or not they're attracted to each other. Think I would simply prefer to meet someone face-to-face by surprise/chance.
if my only options were a dating app, I would see if she peaked my interest and move on from there. No need to get all the details right away.

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

I always saw it as rude…

like some Indian guys I would exchange with in the past, would be like:

Name

age

height

bra size

- and I almost laughed, at one point. Felt like I was filing for some government papers or so. It was so formal and seemingly ‘judgy.’

Regardless of size- huge Mama or petite Polly- they shouldn’t have to ask.

Although… if it is based on attraction and being online, guys can’t see the girl much as in person, I suppose it’s alright.

Ask because it’s a free country. Ask because ya just gotta know.

BUT

ask politely and humanely because they’re still a person you know… and be ready to share that info as well.

lilyanony1 · Accepted Answer

They shouldn't but what they do is ask for a full body pic. Whether you're clothes or not. That way they can decide if you're too fat for them.
Most apps give them your height so they can judge very quickly if that means you're a right match once they see your pic...
Women forget men are visual. Does it stop you from being insulted no.. I think if you meet someone and they're like this avoid. Because if they want something long term and real. They'll come to understand that everyone gets wider and saggy as we grow old.

AviatorTom · Answer

Sure, but only if she asks first about his weight and penis size.

coachTanthony · Answer

Yes if women want to know a man's height and how much he makes it's only fair if women have the essentials for proper procreation. Ask away.

Becky316 · Answer

He can, but if e were to ask me that, I'm asking about his cock size with proof. Proof of income, house, car, retirement, bank account, money in wallet. Basically all his personal info. If you wanna judge me, then get ready for the colonoscopy worth of questions I've got for you!

Anonymous · Answer

Not really a great idea. First, girls are likely to lie or fib anyway, so asking the question doesn't really give you the information you're looking for--you're going to have to see her for yourself. Secondly, in asking there's a good chance you could put off a girl who might otherwise be a good match. That is, she could be thin/fit and have BIG natural boobs, but if you ask about it, she may think, "what if he ONLY wants me for my boobs and awesome body? I'd better not continue with this guy."

So yeah--it's a terrible idea.

Angxl3120 · Answer

Weight is still out of hand, you can literally figure out her weight by looking at their pfp. And if breast size is mentioned, now you know what that guy wants.

TheorionMage · Answer

WHY? Are you 'dating' by size & pound? . Reciprocity! Would YOU provide notarized testimonials on personal wealth, cock size and staying power?  WHY should she 'merchandize' her self  if YOU won't!

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Ha! I only ask that stuff because it's an easy way to tell her she's a fucking reject. I wouldn't say that to a chick I'm interested in though. Women do it too, in their own way. I roll my eyes at every chick that starts asking questions that have to do with making money.

Lionman95 · Answer

What´s the point of asking those questions? If it benefits them and helps them find a date or partner, yes maybe? If it´s just something stupid since women want to know how tall a guy the answer is no.
I´ve never asked those questions because I don´t see a point in doing so.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Let ''us'' ask if it's relevant to one of ''us''.

SHOULD --> not as in standard 'set of questions'

In real life we would not approach a girl that isn't appealing to us.

On a dating app it's tricky: Filters, outdated photos, euphemistic self descriptions and such may distort our perception.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Only desperate women would replay to that query. In fact, your profile will probably be shit canned.

Nikki1989 · Answer

That is rude, inappropriate, invasive, and irrelevant.

HawkPerception · Answer

I've never asked a girl's weight on a dating app and no... I don't think weight should be be asked about. You should judge based on pictures and meeting in person whether the person is a right "fit" for you 😂

EmmaMary · Answer

Personally I consider inappropriate and completely unnecessary.

progboy · Answer

It's not really appropriate to ask straight off the bat and probably won't get you very far if you do. I have asked before but only after getting to know the woman a bit and at an appropriate time i. e. when talk has turned towards more sexual things.

HouseMoat · Answer

Only if it's ok for a woman to ask a mans height and dick size (not that you need to be getting that personal that quick but), yeah, if it's ok to ask a woman her weight and breast size, why isn't it ok for a woman to ask a mans height and dick size right off the bat

Hannajenky · Answer

Do you ask someone what size their breasts are when you first meet them at a party, or at work, or anywhere? Why is a dating app any different

Date_a_Snob · Answer

Im obviously not a size two. when I was on a few diffrent dating apps I had guys make some comments although none never asked me weight or size directly

rigmarole · Answer

It's not any different than asking about a man's height. If you think it's OK to ask about his physical measurements in any way, then you should be OK with him asking about your physical measurements.

normalice · Answer

It is the same as any other question on dating apps. If the girl isn't into a conversation she can simply cut off contact with the guy. And the fact is some girls are into being asked things like that.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

If they really care about it, why not. That way you know what they find important.

KittyKat90210 · Answer

Not in my opinion. It's a bit shallow to base everything off her proportions without having a chance to meet her first

tiff_tiff · Answer

No. Its rude and unnecessary. Dating profiles have photos and a guy can get a sense of weight and breast size.

AndreaScker · Answer

Why not? I'm a fat bitch. I find that being honest about how I look ensures I only get guys who are into it. Although I'd love to have a guy humiliate me sexually for catfishing

boggboss · Answer

I dono people like to ask pretty outrageous things but get upset when they themself get asked stuff I think its either u don't ask anything too personal or anything is on the table

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Should they? No. Can they? In all fairness, they get asked a lot about their height (not sure about 🍆 size), so I'd say ask if you get asked.

sheikalana · Answer

I would immediately unmatch them if they asked such thing.

RavenDarkheart · Answer

If they want to be blocked and ignored maybe. Otherwise they better be able come up with better things to ask.

Dargil · Answer

Only after they have asked us critical dimensions, like height, weight and dicque dimensions. Don't you agree? And, Chivalry dictates Ladies get to ask first.

worldscolide · Answer

Yes, if they feel it's acceptable to ask a man's height and financial situation. Turn about is fair play.

Anonymous · Answer

I am small everywhere but I will tell him whatever he wants to know. No one ever asked my weight but you can see I'm not heavy in my pictures. If I have chemistry with the guy I might say, "are you big?" in a flirty way.

Ad_Quid_Orator · Answer

If that's what's important to him he should and if it bothers the girl he's talking to that he puts so much weight on that versus other things that make people compatible, she should un-match him.

Kelley1 · Answer

You can ask but, unless they are beautiful, they will lie.

JacobJordan · Answer

If a woman asks a man's height she best be ready for him to ask her weight. Of the 2 weight is controllable.

Surely · Answer

If you think those numbers are important to know before hand. They should be included in your dating profile. Probably you wouldn’t get many responses.

Texaskid1 · Answer

Yes.  Women say they want a man of at least a certain height and income so it is only fair.

Pohjolan · Answer

Coffee dates are for figuring out if you have been catfished before a regular date.

nawtee_me · Answer

No, I would never ask a woman’s weight. I might ask her breast size if we start dating but not on an app. I wouldn’t use an app anyway since anyone can put anything on an app.

Jennz6 · Answer

Yes, they need to know what they are getting

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

No they should also ask about women's height. I know I do. Don't anyone think for ONE SECOND men don't have height preference lol.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Only if he wants toi guaranty a 99% rejection rate.

IloveWinters · Answer

It maybe weird in real world but yeah I guess dating apps has different rules... People sext on dating apps so

Anonymous · Answer

sure if they're also comfortable for her asking his dick size & weight

Starrrboy · Answer

Yeah it's just okay.. I don't get why people get so sensitive and icky about it..

Aphrodite801 · Answer

Hey if they could do that we can ask about their height and weight too

Sharkstealth · Answer

People don't talk to me on dating apps. No because nobody ever responds or messages me.

Anonymous · Answer

What's with you and chokers lol? Gotta love sub girls

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

If it's something I want to know im gonna ask just like how the first question a girl ask is what do you do for a living

CubaPirate · Answer

Not really, unless they want to be asked about their height and dick size. Who wants to date a sort guy with a worm 🪱 dick lol

Anonymous · Answer

😆😆😆 women can't even be honest about what they share already you really think they're going to be honest about that? 🤣🤣🤣

MrCharlie13 · Answer

No, they shouldn't. You are looking for a woman, not a sex toy made to order

he-takes-a-part · Answer

Was never about you. It ms about his needs and wants FYI.

TallAnon · Answer

We can usually guess based on pictures, so there is no need.

Anonymous · Answer

No, they shouldn't just like we shouldn't be asking for guys height and dick size

Anonymous · Answer

Men should stay off dating apps completely, ESPECIALLY Western men.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes if the woman can ask his height then he can in return too

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Well charge some money for answeing that kind of questions. Nothing is free

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I don't think it's really needed.

Anonymous · Answer

It's going to come off as he only wants sex.

Anonymous · Answer

For men height yes dick size no. For women weight yes breast size no.

laly520 · Answer

they always do n its creepy

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