I can only imagine what it's like to have women message you first. Do you have to have a certain profile, nice car, muscles? Or do you just have to be overly attractive. I've asked if women ever message guys first and they say all the time. I'm like the definition of average looking so I don't expect it to ever happen to me but it would be nice to trade lives even just for one day
When I use to do online dating, occasionally I would get a women messaging first (it is rare though). They would usually comment about how nice my mustache is or tease me about shaving it. Heck some women in person would randomly compliment my mustache. It is nice to have women make the first move because it makes me think they are confident and I like confident women.
I do want to point out it is not just looks that will make women peruse you. It is also your personality. If you have a very good personality that they like and you are smart in someway some women will peruse you.
my gals never initiate. if i initiate message they reply the same day. only phone calls they initiate. some at bad times! when i am too busy. lol.
I talk to guys first some don't respond or do out of niceness.
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In my experience very few initiate
It's a nice feeling
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