Is it healthy for someone to date if the relationship fails and they completely fall apart?

[Anonymous]

Like I can admit I’m at the bottom right now mentally right now and if I seem to recover not placing myself in this position or taking this chance again. Cause I don’t know how to invest with putting everything into it so I feel with that that that it’s gambling mental ruin each time

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe pain is a signal to avoid something. Without pain, the entire world would die at 40 cause they would not be avoiding dangerous things. Romantic separation might hurt, but take comfort in knowing your a valuable person with a strong purpose, that you are important to yourself, to the world, to your family, and to God, and that even Mark Zuckerberg and Bill Gates and Tiger Woods had painful and agonizing rejections in their lives. This is the bitter path almost everyone has walked through. Even God gets rejected by human beings, being rejected does not mean you are not high value. It just means you have yet to find the place where your glory can shine.

[strateguy632]

healthy just find other people, many options in each city