What are the most frustrating problems men face in modern dating?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Women can look more attractive with the power of make up and plastic surgery. Women have these absurd, unrealistic expectations of life and do dumb things like tattoo an essay about the philosophy of life but she has 10 cent values. Women try so hard to live a man's world of playing sports or trying to be a boss, but I have found the most narcissistic, overbearing, bitchy bosses were women, not men. I find women are awful at managing and controlling their emotions. It's funny how a comeback a woman or girl on social media, in person or even on a site like GAG will be something like this..."Oh look another sexless virigin simp bitter guy".

Yeah, ok there, I guess a guy who has an opinion has to be silenced with duct tape. I thought females want guys to be able to stand up for themselves, I guess that's all a lie. Women don't know what they want. The same way people on the right and left have been fooled by politicians like Biden and Trump (don't like, don't respect, don't trust either), women and girls have been fooled by the feminist movement. Guys and men are simple -- don't nag, having sex, eat/watch the game, and a good man who's disciplined will go to work to make money and stay in shape. Modern day dating is a joke because a lot of females just want to fool around and have hook ups. Yet, they label men as horny bastards. I didn't realize it was something proud to be an ignorant, semi-porn star skank with low self esteem, past bad boyfriend relations (that she chose) and daddy issues.

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

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electromagnetic · Accepted Answer

I wanna say they’re own self worth. A lot of people do say that men lack confidence in themselves when it come to dating. The idea of them having to be living away from parents, financially stable, own a car, basic investments.. it’s been so hard wired that everyone not just men forget that we live in a society now where unless you’re a rocket scientist or brain surgeon, two incomes are required to just stay afloat.

And also men chasing girl that are delulu when the quality girls are at home hoping someone would break in and sweep them off their feet.

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

Women this generation have been “raised” to disrespect and don’t value men. Men are not raised to take on the role of being a man.

aceleon · Answer

every male instinct we have is shamed and belittled

if you wanna have sex you are a horny bastard

if you go for looks you are shallow

if you don't wanna commit you are childishor have issues

if you don't like woman having body counts you are a misogynyst

if you are jealous of your partner and don't want other boys around you are insecure

if you don't chase womans around and satisfy yourself in other ways you are a loser

if you chase womans around you are disadvantaged or a creep

if you don't want to do acts you don't wanna do you are selfish

the money you make is for public use

you wanting to spread genes as much as possible is objectifying woman and perversion

beggers can't be choosers

happy wife happy life

equality

feminism

liberalism.

RebelinSteel · Answer

At times I would say they are, themselves (grammar lol), listening to social media and having unrealistic expectations. Not being able to dust themselves off when they get a rejection, listening to social media (yes again) especially over things like body count, tats, fashion etc. I have a mate thst can pretty much rule out a room of 30 girls as 20 have tats and 10 have short skirts or piercings. The rest of us are happy and he spends a fortune getting a taxi home alone. It is fucking hard out there but some people are their own worst enemy.

Lionman95 · Answer

I think the biggest issue for guys is that it became a business and therefore apps came up that are interested primarily interested in money making.

The other problems is guys do dating alone, so many guys try to invent the wheel again. That´s a German proverb for situations where people try to do from the start something that´s done by others. Instead of asking others for help and prepare for dating guys try to do it alone or completely unaware what girls are into. So they invest a lot but in the wrong things.

Anonymous · Answer

They are too insecure to date the women they really like, those women who don't show they sexuality too much, because they fear rejection, as those women don't give signs that they want to be approached.

So they approach more sexualized and more accessible and approachable women they don't really like that much. Since those women were approachable, they are likely to be approachable with other guys too, which means that they are more likely to cheat. Those men will feel like crap and they would resent those women, but would be too insecure to date better women.

You can see the difference between the two types of women in the way they behave. The first type doesn't initiate conversations, she doesn't flirt, she doesn't pose on social media.

The second type flirts with most men to get their attention, she texts first and she posts sexual pictures on social media to get attention.

Of course, not all women fit the two categories.

Anonymous · Answer

Impossible expectations. Men are expected to conform to traditional dating norms.. but not TOO traditional. Just the right amount. Men are also expected to have it all together. Be confident, be grounded, emotionally mature, have a good career with good upward mobility, make hundreds of thousands, have nice things, have a nice house, regular vacations, be able to pamper their partner, but still have all the time needed to satisfy a partner emotionally. They also have to have time to go to the gym, look extremely attractive, be at least 6 foot, have style and of course the most important. Only have eyes for one partner.

Women expect men to have it all and put all their cards on the table on the first date when most guys didn’t even have a dad present growing up and no one to teach them anything. And once women realize their Disney fairytale was a lie they divorce their husband and take as much from him as possible.

DextroShade · Answer

1. Women who are entitled and think they deserve a top man even if they are average at best.

2. Feminism teaching women that they don't need men and shouldn't submit to or do anything for a man.

3. Extremely high obesity rates among modern women to the point that they outweigh the average man.

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

Hmmm…I guess just women being timid and indirect. But I don’t think that’s a modern thing. You know, you got girls on here who don’t want to reply in a timely fashion because they think being timely makes them look thirsty. God forbid they accidentally appear interested. God forbid they respond in a reasonable time period. Then you have girls who seem to live communicating only with hints and shit. I’m tired of the god damn hints. Enough with the hints. I don’t do hints because I’m not afraid of what some girl is gonna say. Finally, there’s this really annoying behavior where women will ignore questions when the answer to said question isn’t what I wanna hear. “Wanna go out tomorrow?” She acts like she didn’t notice it. Just say no. I’m not gonna chew your face off like a pitbull or something. At least have the damn courtesy to just say no.

HighValue · Answer

The lack of good moral and fair women. It is extremely rare to find one.

The majority of people in relationships are just accepting of each other's low quality, but if you are actually a good, high quality person, it is VERY difficult to find someone even close to the same quality for a partner.

Unit1 · Answer

Being Mr Average and everything that comes with it

SolitarySolace · Answer

Female superiority/feminism and a man’s own desire for sex. These two things just don’t go together. Women care too much about themselves and men care too much about pleasure. If women stopped being so inherently selfish and men stopped having sex for pleasure, I don’t think we would have so many conflicts when it comes to dating and relationships

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I'll tell you! The most frustrating problem is when you're talking to a 6 because you see her heart and you see that she's a good person and you want to give her a chance. But she thinks she's like a 9 or 10! So she's arrogant. Which completely cancels out her great personality that she WOULD have had otherwise! 🤦

normalice · Answer

The constant tilt of the work-life balance towards work making it difficult to find time to say much besides "so, we getting naked tonight or not?"

Drewtate · Answer

Most Women are fat and won't settle for the average Joe.

MemeSupreme · Answer

social media shit complicates things way more than it should and makes people overthink more like not even just dudes

elaphe · Answer

Women who won't tell you they are not interested (instead of lying about having a boyfriend or that they are busy) I mean, it takes courage to ask a girl out. They should have the courage to say "thanks, but I'm not interested."

ImHere22 · Answer

The majority of men who make some of the actual good ones look terrible like all the rest.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Men are too delusional to see their flaws and obvious shortcomings.

Anonymous · Answer

There are no dating problems that "men" face. Because "men" don't date. INDIVIDUALS date. INDIVIDUALS have problems. There have ALWAYS been individuals who have problems dating. That HAS to be the case. So nothing's really new here.

Anonymous · Answer

Your life must be pretty sad to be on the site 24/7 even on weekends

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Feminism. It convinces a lot of women to forget about being family oriented, and to try to outdo men career wise. In reality, that’s not what complements men the best, and it’s not what we’re attracted to either.

grega239 · Answer

I lost confidence, im distrustful and paranoid about women.

I dont know what they actually want because they say they want apples, eat oranges while thinking of lemons.

Hipocricy. I've seen several women talk about equality but want the man to still abide by their gender roles.

I could go on but i think I've made my point.

OtterMan68 · Answer

Finding a woman over 40 who is not looking for husband #2 or #3 and has shared insterests

KrakenAttackin · Answer

The delusional expectations of most women.  Fellas, the only way to win is not to play. Find your own inner peace.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I don't know and I don't care.  I know being a decent person and you will attract decent woman.

Pohjolan · Answer

We live in a time of societal change where the old rules of dating no longer apply but we haven't yet established a new  status quo.

Anonymous · Answer

As an Expert? Finding some who are not so shallow and into themselves. hahaha

dolemite58 · Answer

How delusional dating apps and social media have made most women. Lots of 49ers out there now, 4’s that act like 9’s 🤣

Slim57 · Answer

Social medias influence on women and feminism, men over valuing low value women.

Billlewis · Answer

Working my ass off and still not getting any pussy... lol

LiamJHayden · Answer

The only problem I face is that not every girl I ask says, "Yes." but not sure that is really a problem.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

A woman's  indecisiveness !

SotiCoto · Answer

Shitty AI-generated pseudo-photos are certainly contributing.

JHAYES317 · Answer

Fixation over physical traits we can’t control…like height, dick size, baldness, etc

jahaims · Answer

The women that want to be treated traditionally and don't offer anything in return.

sawno · Answer

Finding a compatible girl.

NathanDavis · Answer

themselves

LaurenM1997 · Answer

probably rejection

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, bad dating advice.

SongBird3 · Answer

Hookup culture

msc545 · Answer

Women

Anonymous · Answer

Giving clumpkins

kingmaker21 · Answer

Too many options

LadiesFavoriteToy · Answer

Femenists.

Pete671 · Answer

Getting one!

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

Man's greatest enemy is himself.

DagonbroughtMehere · Answer

Modern Humans.

Makro00 · Answer

I do not know

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