Would you feel comfortable having third date at home after having been on 2 dates of 4 hours each with someone? Proposed activity is cooking together.
For guys, I'm going to add these question: Would you ask a woman to meet at home after having spent 8+ hours with her? Is there another activity hidden behind this "cooking" or am I making assumptions?
I've been on 2 dates with this guy, at least 4 hours each. We had so much to talk about that we went from lunch to dessert date, went to see a museum, and walked on street, etc. During the week we're having long text conversations at well 😄
We both love cooking and he suggested that "maybe we could cook a nice meal together, since we both like cooking."
He's been respectful based on my interactions with him. He hasn't put his arms around me or hand on my hip like some guys have done on first or second dates. He also didn't kiss me (although he did ask me "No kiss?" at the end of second date.)
He did hold my hands, well, with fingers interlocking, but he wasn't the only guy that has done that, so I don't know if it's common? He hasn't made inappropriate comments about me.
I don't feel 100% comfortable since cooking is a personal activity to me, because 2 people would be so close. I don't bring a guy home unless I'm in a relationship with him.
What are your opinions on his idea?
Would you feel comfortable meeting privately for third date?
Do you think it's too soon? If so, by how many dates do you think would be appropriate?
For guys, I'm going to add these question: Would you ask a woman to meet at home after having spent 8+ hours with her? Is there another activity hidden behind this "cooking" or am I making assumptions?
I've been on 2 dates with this guy, at least 4 hours each. We had so much to talk about that we went from lunch to dessert date, went to see a museum, and walked on street, etc. During the week we're having long text conversations at well 😄
We both love cooking and he suggested that "maybe we could cook a nice meal together, since we both like cooking."
He's been respectful based on my interactions with him. He hasn't put his arms around me or hand on my hip like some guys have done on first or second dates. He also didn't kiss me (although he did ask me "No kiss?" at the end of second date.)
He did hold my hands, well, with fingers interlocking, but he wasn't the only guy that has done that, so I don't know if it's common? He hasn't made inappropriate comments about me.
I don't feel 100% comfortable since cooking is a personal activity to me, because 2 people would be so close. I don't bring a guy home unless I'm in a relationship with him.
What are your opinions on his idea?
Would you feel comfortable meeting privately for third date?
Do you think it's too soon? If so, by how many dates do you think would be appropriate?
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3 mo
Sorry, I don't know how to select Super Bot thing. I was going to give 2 MHOs and 1 Super Bot thing, but I didn't see that option, so that left one person out. I appreciate all of your input. Thank you.
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