Am I male 26 too old for a female 18?

[Anonymous]

[EnglishArtsteacher]

Yes, I think so.

Sure, it's legal, but what can you possibly have in common with a teenager? They're easily manipulated at that age, and many older men know this.

I've had these conversations on this website before, and it seems @Apple1996 is the only user who agrees with me that just because someone is 18 years old, doesn't mean it's okay for that person to date an adult at any age.

[Asker]

It's not about manipulation or grooming it's about someone who hasn't been trenched out less sexual partners

[EnglishArtsteacher]

... And just as I suspected, you're wanting to use her for sex.

[Asker]

I don't want to use her I just know less sexual partners means her and I will be more likely to pair bond sex is inevitable with a between the genders but like I said before it's just an infatuation

[slatyb]

Do you have a particular young women in mind, or are you asking whether it's reasonable for you to hit on teens? The answer to the second question is no, it's not reasonable or appropriate.

[Asker]

I have a certain girl in mind its not sexual just an infatuation not going around seeking teenagers to bang

[slatyb]

How do you know her? Has she indicated that she's interested in you?

[Apple1996]

Obviously yes you are way to old to be dating a literally teenager

[Asker]

What age did you lose your virginity

[Apple1996]

17 but to a 16 year old

[incorrected]

8 years of difference isn't weird, especially when you consider that the lower age of 18 is enough age to send men to die in war.

[Apple1996]

@incorrected it's very weird because his frontal lobe is developed and hers isn't. He can make decent decisions she can't.

And the government says adult at 18 so they can use them for war and to all the kids that go to college and get into bad debt. It's just a way to fuck people up for life and be used. Government vs dating is completely different when it comes to who is a adult

[Asker]

You can go and have sex at 17 but I can't have a simple crush on someone who is 18 seems hypocritical plus girls like older guys anyways

[Asker]

You wasn't spouting all this frontal lobe stuff when you let someone inside you at 17 don't put me as the predator

[incorrected]

Maturity can come with age, but often doesn't. It's a question of maturity, not age. A mature 18 year old and an immature 26 year old would be a bad pairing because the 26 year old is immature... The idea that being 18 makes someone borderline retarded enough to blindly join the army is just silly, I remember being 18 lol. Then again, I was a mature and intelligent 18 so on average you're probably right.

[Apple1996]

@incorrected no 18 year old is mature even if they seem like it they don't have the wisdom like older people do

[Apple1996]

A grown adult knows better to stay away from teenagers. It's fine for teens to be with other teens. It's not fine for grown adults to be with teens

[Apple1996]

Only girls with issues like older guys. Why take advantage of someone that you already know is vulnerable?

[zagor]

Actually there are a lot of 18 year olds who are quite mature, though it seems fewer than there used to be.

[Paris13]

Nah, Seems Okay But Cannot Tell You If She is Mature Yet. lolxxoo

[Avicenna]

If the two of you want to date each other, have at it- you're both adults.

[FunkyMonkee]

Nope. My parents were 10 years apart. My first was 18 and I was 3 weeks shy of 25.

[TheSpider]

My Dad was 27 when he married my Mom and she was 18. They stay married for almost 60 years. So no you are not too old if she will have you.

[HawkPerception]

No, that's fine and the older you both get, the less it matters.

[zagor]

No, that is fine. One of my F friends was dating a 26 y. o. at 17. I would have dated an 18 y. o. up until I was 30 or so.

[WhiteSteve]

I tried that at 25. Wasn’t good, lmao

[exitseven]

No, you are both adults.

[CozyCoffin]

No...

[Zestyassmf1997]

No, it’s fine.

[jahaims]

For sure

[war_daddy]

nope it's fine

[riverrat3]

Nope