Do you think in a general sense, people would find your partner, or your most recent ex, attractive?

[Anonymous]

Yeah, people tell me, or I hear people say a lot that he/she is fine

For sure, I just think they would be a lot of people's types

I think they would be viewed very differently, I think some would view them as attractive, some would view them as below average, some would view them as decent, a couple might view them as repulsive

Nah, even though I obviously think they are attractive

It depends, some days they look cute, have their hair kempt, dress well, but other days, they look like a mess, like when they don't shave, comb their hair, etc

A total of 36 votes were cast: 18 girls and 18 guys. See detailed results

[sage2021]

He wasn't exactly handsome, but he had a great, fun, personality. I'll tell you though, he sure knew how to get the women! He just had something about him that women liked. He was a ladies man.
I can say that I was very attracted to him the first night I met him, and each time I saw him, it just got stronger and stronger.
Trying to get him to be my boyfriend was like trying to fish for a Blue Marlin 🐟 fish and actually pulling him out of the water and putting him in my boat 🚤

[Anonymous]

My last girlfriend was a transwoman and even I didn't expect to end up with her, I wasn't attracted to her at first. But I'm very easily convinced if someone has a great personality. We were friends at first and the spark was just there. And my friends did not say she was ugly but they had respect for me that I had the balls to be myself like that.
Meaning they probably thought it was a odd choice 😂
But she was really great. She still is, but the hormones changed her a lot. I really saw myself growing old with her.

[WhiteSteve]

She’s been homebound with an illness for like ten years, bedridden for a lot of them, and she is still so fucking hot, lmfao, it’s honestly absurd. Met her at 22/23, she just turned 40 last week, looks the same. Just bananas. Some people just have it. I can’t relent or I’ll look fucking horrendous😂

[WhiteSteve]

Oh, but yeah, everybody comments on her. Had a somewhat awkward interaction with a pizza store guy I was friendly with, and he saw my girl outside on a bench and he just gets distracted from our conversation and goes “oh my god, I’m sorry…. that girl out there on the bench with the flower in her hair just took my breath away…”, and I had to be like “oh…hahaha…that’s actually my girlfriend…”, and then he of course is like “oh my god, I’m sorry”, but obviously that’s no big deal.

I remember walking a little behind her when we were headed into a club for her birthday one year, and this car full of guys starts slow cruising by, and one of the windows was down. I’m like “Awesome. These guys are going to say something, I’M going to have to say something, and I’m either going to jail or getting stomped out by four dudes and sent to the ER, either way, her birthday is ruined before it got started.” But I was relieved when they continued past her, then the driver says to ME: “your woman is FINE, bro. Respect.” Lmfao, crisis averted.

Sometimes it could be a problem when we were younger just because I’m not jealous but I am protective, and pretty much any time we went to a bar or a party and I left her for even a minute, dudes would start taking a run at her, and obviously you know how that can go from there.

[sawno]

Yeah, she is definitely attractive and I know I am not the only one who thinks that. Her personality is off the charts, so as pretty as she is her personality outshines it as the best thing about her.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I know for a fact, they find him stunning and extremely hot. Some couldn’t even dream of having a man as sexy as he was.

[Anonymous]

She had a sort of androgynous face, wide jaw, and she was a bit plump. I find androgyny extremely attractive and didn't mind her weight at all, but most people probably would've called her average at best. Garbage personality, but she was pretty to me.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

"When he walks in, he lights up the place."

I've been detested for winning the man of their dreams.

[Drumlin2001]

Probably not. Not in the general sense. Both my current OH and ex had attractive elements, but are both a little heavy set. By today's societies obsession with thinness they would be judged quite harshly

[TenderFantasy]

What's OH?

[Drumlin2001]

Other half...

[TenderFantasy]

And I went out with a fat man. But I didn't do it consciously meaning he also (or at least I thought he did) possess "good" qualities like him being around my age (only 9 months older). I also thought he was good looking enough to a degree. We were both into video games (but he was way more obssessed than I was). He lived fairly close by (an hour give or take). He actually had a car and was formally educate. He also looked like he came from a normal non-divorced family, no history of violence domestic or otherwise. He WAS leaning towards leftism so that was a problem, but other than that... I thought it was divine intervention in a way... but sadly he left me after only five months.. even met him here on G@G.

[aceleon]

yes but they would be better woman or gay or else they are losing what is in their pants (not that they had anything they could be sad about losing in the first place)

[RebelinSteel]

I have never dated anyone and given a figs arse what others think and I never will. As @Nikki1989 says, Why would anyone really care. That and everyone has different tastes and types.

[Nikki1989]

Why would you care what others think?

[SotiCoto]

Without explicitly naming her nor saying too much to identify her... yeah, she gets hit on by creeps a lot, and also gets a lot of casual racism directed at her too. They probably regard her as "exotic"... which is stupid as she was born here.

[Flatmanlewis]

I’ve been told regularly how lucky I am and that my wife is quite beautiful. I truly feel fortunate to have found her in life.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Physically? Sure. Everyone wants her. But almost none are able to handle her as a person.

[Asker]

Why is she a handful? If you don't mind me asking

[Zestyassmf1997]

Psychotic.

[LiamJHayden]

Don't know, don't care. She was adorable to me. What some random porn-addicted losers think is not important.

[Minahh]

Where's the option naaah I was fucking dumb for talking to such losers?

[NathanDavis]

yes... because she is

[Paris13]

lol My X FROM GAG? xxoo

[sawno]

In that case its simple, type in their name and see if your ex ever got mentioned in a "So beautiful question" haha.

[Paris13]

@sawno lol!!! He is Not On Here, dear, Anymore. I Doubt it But I Do Think He Had a Reputation for being Outspoken. lolxxoo

[WhitneySnow]

Yes. He is.

[californianjoe]

no I don't think so

[Asker]

Any reasons why?