Is it most likely I will never have a Women in my life?

[Anonymous]

Im almost 20 and never had a girlfriend before, I’m average looking but i don’t know what i’m doing wrong. (Girls never approach me or ask me for my number)

I have so much emotional pain from not having a woman in my life. The emotional pain is so bad that it feels like it’s physical pain.

I asked 21 girls for their numbers, only 2 gave me their numbers, and 19 girls rejected me.

[aceleon]

1- you are too young to be that depressed about girls

2- you are not just lacking confidence, you have no confidence at all sorry kid but no girl wants an insecure boy, learn to not give a damn at least or youare doomed for life.

3- girls doesn't ask numbers especially from an average looking insecure guy don't do this to yourself you need to develop yourself, not just developing you need a fucking evolution forfuck sake.

here is the deal:

go and work out like your life depends on it, not that it would bring girls to you or will impress them, it is not for them so forget about if i work out like a sigma girls will start eating from my hands, this is for you, you need to look better and feel better, you need to get rid of your negative energy, sweat a lot and feel that you are accomplishing something when you see yourself growing fitter and fitter, first step is this.

if you are okay with it send me a photo or make your pp your own so i can suggest some style changes if you'd like.

same goes for clothing too, i don't know your fashion choices but some changes makes the biggest differences

most important part here, STOP GİVİNG A DAMN, nothing is important, rejection? that is the least of your problems, infact you are lucky that you got rejected by girls all this time because in your current state even if anyone would date you, with your attitude and personality you are doomed to get cheated on and that my boy, would be much more painful than getting rejected, youneed to built a tougher skin and a backbone because it seems you are the type of guy who would let his girl walk all over him out of desperation and cope it with the claims of i love her so much that blah blah shits.

[Asker]

i guess i will start working out, i do have an average build but i will start working out, maybe get a haircut too cause my hair needs trimmed

[aceleon]

to be honest debate the haircut with someone who knows about this stuff, a stylist or something, ask for something that goes to your face and style not just a random haircut.

[lightbulb27]

no, ever is a long time and you are still young and not ready. 2 out of 21 is actually quite good for someone communicating as poorly as you are.

you have a lot of growing to do emotionally. when you wake up, many girls will beinterested, ideally, you pick one good for you, not just any girl.

[HelpfulWoman]

Fuck it,
Yes, you will likely NOT get a woman. Because you're acting like a fucking tit.
You're 20. You're basically a newborn in a nappy for the dating scene. You are being a utter dumbass and wasting oxygen by thinking this time of your life will "be the rest of your life". Get over yourself.
And get over yourself thinking a woman is whats going to make you happy. You're projecting "I'm a desperate loser" by doing so, and no woman with their right mind wants the desperate clingy "my happiness is related to my relationship status". Seek therapy. Find hobbies. And shut the fuck up.

[HelpfulWoman]

-Look at all your basically duplicate questions. How the fuck would THAT attract someone?

[Veles]

What kind of moron has such an emotional outburst over a simple question? Educate yourself.

[HelpfulWoman]

😂 apparently you for starters. Also it's not a "simple" question. It's repeated dumb arse behaviour. Educate yourself first before trying others sweetie.

[SciencePreacher]

@Veles I have to agree with opinion owner on this one - first of all it is the internet, the place to talk bullshit without consequences. And the asker has been forever complaining about it, and worse that half of the time he's posting rapey questions like they're normal "should I suddenly grope her even when she says no?" "Very single woman deserves to be emotionally manipulated and tricked to have sex with me. Thoughts?"
He's got some growing up in the head to do. Maybe he also has to take steroids and coom occasionally just enough to avoid stagnant fluids causing pain when urinating, not worry about spreading his genes. Philanthropists will be happy that he chooses to reduce the population. But I had the opinion owner blocked because of my untrannify list so I guess we'll also go back to that.

[ItsMariusz]

Your name fits you... Truth over feelings.

[Anonymous]

Oopssiee, @HelpfulWoman deleted my comment and blocked me just because I said "you noticed that this was a repeated behavior after you shared your opinion and left a comment about it, come up with more believable lies."
Such a loser.

[Opinion Owner]

@sciencepreacher Did I say anything about the asker or his question?

I was talking about Helpulwoman being weirdo. she often insults other members for no reason. I remember her swearing at me before, but the mods deleted her comment before I reply. she’s probably a depressed loser in real life.

[OlderAndWiser]

Girls want a man who is confident and assertive, not a boy who sits back and expects them to do the chasing.

[slatyb]

20? You are just getting started. Do you have any female friends, or do you just hit on women you meet in the street?

[Asker]

the street, cold approach

[slatyb]

That's pretty hopeless. Find something activity group that attracted some women. Make friends, lean names, don't hit on anyone for a while. When you are regularly getting a dozen women by name, v suddenly dating will be easy.

[laly520]

u r still young n will for sure meet many girls
be careful n patient
good luck

[zagor]

So did you call those two girls? 10% success isn't bad for an average guy. You only need one to work out.

And it sounds like you are a bit needy. That is not an attractive property in a guy.

[CozyCoffin]

What about the other two? Out of all those ladies, do any of them have friends that they're willing to set you up with? Do you have anyone willing to set you up with?

[Massageman]

#1. Please don't think that asking them for their number constitutes a relationship. That would be a start.

[Anonymous]

Dude you are still young.. you have lots of time..

[Anonymous]

If you become an incel most likely.

don’t become an incel.

[californianjoe]

You're probably short, am I right?

[Anonymous]

Start worrying past 25