What would you do if you didn’t want to tell other people the reason why you rejected another person as a date after they asked you to tell them why?

[Anonymous]

I know not everyone in the world is going to think I’m pretty but I still want to share my opinion.

These group of about 4 girls I go to university with asked me if I would go out with this guy and I told them I’m not interested and now they keep on asking me why.

The reason why is because I’m not physically attracted to Asian men. I don’t want to tell them the reason why because I’m afraid they are going to call or think of me as a racist.

[OlderAndWiser]

There is nothing inherently racist about not being attracted to a particular race. I am Caucasian and I am not attracted to black women. If that makes me racist, explain why I am marrying a Chinese woman.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[Asker]

Your welcome.

[Asker]

You don’t think it’s racist and I don’t either but other people might think so.
Many people call other people racist, bigot, ignorant, transphobe, homophobe or ignorant etc just because you say something they don’t like even if you weren’t intentionally trying to offend them.

[OlderAndWiser]

It is the preferred tactic of those on the left: if someone says something you don't like, just call them a name.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Then don't say "Asian men" because they didn't ask about that. Say you weren't attracted to him.

[Anonymous]

Why can’t you just say he isn’t your type or you aren’t attracted to him? It doesn’t have to be about race at all.