Pushy? Why did he do that?

[ny_gal17]

Met a guy on a dating app. He wanted to exchange numbers. He asked to meet me that night and I said I couldn't, so I asked for a different day. He refused to see me another day and then acted not interested. He texted me the next day and did the same thing and kept giving me ultimatums if I didn't see him that day. What do you think of this behavior?

[Avicenna]

His behavior should be a total dealbreaker

[ny_gal17]

Yeah making it seem like I wasn't interested. Total controlling jerk?

[Avicenna]

Yeah

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that is some seriously pushy behavior! Red flag city.

Wanting to meet right away is one thing, but refusing other options and giving you ultimatums is controlling AF. Who does he think he is?

Seems like he just wants to hookup ASAP with no concern for your schedule or comfort level. He should respect what you're willing and able to do, not force you into last minute plans.

I'd be willing to bet if you did squeeze in a same-day meet, he'd probably just try to bang and then disappear. This dude sounds like trouble, sis!

You deserve someone who will wait patiently for a proper date without acting entitled to your time. Drop him like a hot potato - don't waste another minute on pushy dudes. Block and delete! You can do so much better.

Keep looking - your perfect match is out there who will treat you with respect from the jump. This a-hole ain't it!