Why did he do that?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend spoke about following random girl’s instagram accounts because it is disrespectful to our relationship. I saw yesterday he followed a random girl who was shaking her butt on Instagram and showing her butt. I asked him about it and he said he didn’t do that and it’s probably not recent but Instagram showed me it was recent. Why’s would he do that after he knows I don’t like that stuff?

[Anonymous]

Because he’s an idiot who doesn’t know how to hide it. Sure I can understand how you feel. But just cause you feel that way doesn’t mean his feelings are automatically invalidated. Men don’t look at that because we love her or we have feelings for her. It’s a male thing that you will never understand. Do I go around looking for ass and titties all day? No I don’t. It just happens. If I could change that part about being a male for myself sure it would make life easier. But I can’t. Neither can they. That would be like me telling you to stop being emotional. Most likely not going to happen. Men usually say no I would never do that because if they’re trying to get w you they know that more than likely you won’t like that. So it ruins their chances. I think just about all men do it. Some to the extreme, but I think all straight men pretty much look at other women.

[RedInnocent68]

Whoa! You police his insta follows? I’d be more concerned by his DMs, not his follows… What else do you police?

[spartan55]

You girls are so irrationally insecure about stupid Instagram.

[LiamJHayden]

Just break up.