Why did he do that?

[gyelizezlla]

I've been talking to a boy who is my friend's friend for a few weeks. We instantly became close and flirted. He was a really good and kind person, that's why we progressed so fast, I thought he was a really reliable person, he is a very loved and trusted person in his circle of friends. He made me feel so much love and trust that I really fell in love with him in those 2 weeks, he was asking me questions like would you marry me or something. but yesterday he started to tell me that he was really confused and that the problem was not me but him, but that day everything was fine again, nothing happened. He told me that he was flirting to make me happy because he likes to make people happy. He didn't know how to finish it, so he continued, but if that's the case, why didn't he tell his friend, who is my friend, that he wanted to finish it? Before this incident, he was talking with my friend about how much he loved me. he didn't give any explanation and he's not even unhappy, he doesn't care. Why do you think?

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t know for sure as it hard to know why this boy acted the way he did without more information, but it's possible that he may have been unsure of his feelings for you or may have been afraid of committing to a relationship. It's also possible that he may have been enjoying the attention and flirting, but not actually interested in pursuing a relationship.

It's important to remember that people's feelings and actions can be complex, and sometimes difficult to understand. It's understandable that you may feel hurt or confused by his behavior, but it's important to try to communicate with him and express your feelings in a calm and respectful manner. It's also important to take care of yourself and prioritize your own emotional well-being.

It's up to you to decide what you're comfortable with and what you want out of a relationship. If this boy is not able to provide the kind of communication and commitment that you're looking for, it may be best to move on and focus on finding someone who is more compatible with your needs and wants.

[Iron_Man]

They always say that they say I’ve got the problem not with you

[Anonymous]

This sounds like high school stuff. Move on from it.

[In_Trance]

I think you're a little old for this

[Anonymous]

Im honestly unsure