Is it logical to approach a girl who doesn't show any interest in you?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[D_Bone_Steak]

It is absolutely retarded to approach a girl that has no interest in you. That is a surefire way to find rejection, impede upon another's sense of personal mental space, and waste everybody's time.

Sure, perhaps she will be delighted by people she has no interest in approaching her, but in that case, what kind of attention whore is she? Because she is an attention whore. You can find them in clubs, or posting millions of pictures of herself online, all for the attention. To push this point home, I'm sure she has put a lot of work into pulling attention in her direction which is why, you, a person she shows no interest in, has had your attention caught to begin with. ... and that my friend brings me back to the question, what kind of attention whore is she?

No dude, it is better to approach a girl that shows interest in you. You won't be wasting as much time, by doing so.

[Asker]

Thank you bro

[D_Bone_Steak]

NP, Good luck on the hunt.

[yepdonethat]

No, even though women are very shy and sometimes do like you but won't show signs, it's a waste of time logically. Because majority of them don't like you. And that sucks, because that one shy one could be really awesome, but she will die a lonely cat lady before she is honest to you. That's how dumb they are. I have find out months later or years later, long after moving on, that women that I absolutely adored absolutely loved me. But too late, I was gone. That's when they told me or a friend. But, it's just not logically smart to waste your time on someone who shows no interest signs.

[Lara_Croft]

Most girls, will have a deadpan on their faces when sitting next to their biggest of crushes because they've been told to hold it in lest they face rejection. My advice- be a man 1 Corinthians 16 vs 13, you like a girl- so long as she hasn't said no prior, ask her out or ask to spend time together at a cafe or something

[ManOnFire]

Assuming you've crossed paths before or maybe have had a few words and she clearly is not interested, then I would say it's pretty illogical.

But if you've never even spoken before, how do you tell if she's not interested? Just because she's not looking at you? And how do you know she won't be interested if you do approach?

[madpete1111]

I voted yes because: she doesn't show any interest in you because she doesn't know who you are. Tell her a joke. Make her laugh. Ask her about her life. Show her you have multiple dimensions. Show her she's important. She'll be interested in you even if she won't date you. All that matters is that she knows you exist.

[McLlovin]

Its ok if she hasn’t rejected you. Sometimes you have to show you are interested. If she rejects you and you keep trying, now it’s harassment. So be careful.

[Yannae]

I met my girlfriend by doing this. She was a stranger so of course she isn't showing interest. She was minding her own business.

[RedInnocent68]

Yes. Guys aren’t good judges. Sometimes it’s a probability/volume game.

[boggboss]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Move on