How should I react if a boy blocks me after I reject him but wants to talk to me and show me love in person?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Here are a few thoughts on this situation:

- His blocking you after you rejected him comes across as immature and unable to handle rejection in a respectful way. That would be a red flag for me.

- If a guy wants to pursue you romantically, he needs to make you feel comfortable and respected at all times. Blocking you fails to do that.

- I'd be wary of him trying to talk to you and show affection in person after that. His actions were contradictory - blocking is distancing, while pursuing you physically shows he can't respect your boundaries.

- You deserve to feel 100% comfortable with a guy. This guy has already shown lack of respect for your "no." I wouldn't feel safe or trust him after that.

- If he wants to redeem himself, he needs to have a conversation acknowledging what he did wrong and how he'll do better earning your trust, without any pressure or expectation from you.

- But personally, I think his blocking was immature and you're better off finding a guy who will treat you with consistent care, respect and communication from the start. Don't settle for mixed signals.

- Prioritize your feelings of safety, trust and respect in a situation like this. Don't feel pressured if you're not comfortable after how he acted previously. Your well-being should come first.

[Anonymous]

It’s pretty fake, I bet if he didn’t have to see you in person you’d never have heard from him again after blocking. Knowing this, I would keep my distance in person and not engage much if at all. He can’t handle rejection but wants to pretend he’s ok.

[Blessedme]

What a weirdo. Don't met him. So immature

[Blessedme]

I know someone who get blocked my friend's friend only to plan something disaster. That someone plan to destroy the friend's face and luckily I heard his conservation he was having with someone on his phone in road as waiting for the bus. He didn't recognize me but I am good to remember face " I saw a picture of him" I called the police & reported his plan. Avoid weirdo ass people.

[Asker]

Can you explain how he wanted to destroy her by blocking her?

[Blessedme]

He was insecure. He blocked her as she told him that she isn't interested in him & that he should let her alone. He blocked her. After two or 3 days, he acted like nothing happened so she wouldn't expect him to do anything to her harmful. He brought Acid to throw it on her but likely he hadn't with him when I heard his conversation. He was on his way to get acid and met her in front of her home as she was babysitting her young brother around near 7 PM.

[Asker]

Lucky she had a friend as you

[Asker]

He wanted to get revenge on her but you destroyed his plan

[HelpfulWoman]

tell him to take a hike and ignore him

[CozyCoffin]

Tell him to fuck off.