Okay so I have this friend, he likes me a lot. I rejected him multiple times for a lot of reasons, let me tell you those reasons.
1. We are so different in personalities.
2. He's so dry.
3. He's bad at communicating.
4. He's an atheist, I'm a Catholic. I don't get into relationships with people who are of a different religion/different belief.
5. He doesn't want to get married or have kids EVER in the future, which I do.
6. He's not mature.
7. He gets mad over the littlest things.
8. He doesn't put in any effort to even read my messages. He tells me he doesn't want to.
9. He will never tell me what's wrong, he will just be mad and expect me to read his mind.
10. I'm not ready for a relationship.
11. I'm not mentally okay and being in a relationship would just ruin everything for him and me. I would affect him negatively.
12. We would have to have a long distance relationship since he is in another country.
13. He doesn't have the qualities in a guy that I look for. (Read the previous points and you'll understand)
14. It would just end horribly.
Now that I told you the reasons you understand the situation better.
I've explained to him about 12 TIMES why we can't be together and why I reject him, but he won't give up. I've written SO LONG messages but he doesn't even read them or care for them. He keeps on telling me that I'm loosing an opportunity the be in a relationship and that it's my loss etc.
I liked him at the start when we met, but when I noticed that he didn't have what I looked for I lost them for him. I mean he has a completely different belief and completely different goals in life.
He won't accept rejection, he won't accept a no, he won't stop bringing it up and being mad about it. And let me remind you, I've explained it to him 12 TIMES why we can't be together. 12. He just tells me that he doesn't care.
Wtf do I do?
(Sorry if I sound rude, I'm just frustrated. I'm not usually this rude)
1. We are so different in personalities.
2. He's so dry.
3. He's bad at communicating.
4. He's an atheist, I'm a Catholic. I don't get into relationships with people who are of a different religion/different belief.
5. He doesn't want to get married or have kids EVER in the future, which I do.
6. He's not mature.
7. He gets mad over the littlest things.
8. He doesn't put in any effort to even read my messages. He tells me he doesn't want to.
9. He will never tell me what's wrong, he will just be mad and expect me to read his mind.
10. I'm not ready for a relationship.
11. I'm not mentally okay and being in a relationship would just ruin everything for him and me. I would affect him negatively.
12. We would have to have a long distance relationship since he is in another country.
13. He doesn't have the qualities in a guy that I look for. (Read the previous points and you'll understand)
14. It would just end horribly.
Now that I told you the reasons you understand the situation better.
I've explained to him about 12 TIMES why we can't be together and why I reject him, but he won't give up. I've written SO LONG messages but he doesn't even read them or care for them. He keeps on telling me that I'm loosing an opportunity the be in a relationship and that it's my loss etc.
I liked him at the start when we met, but when I noticed that he didn't have what I looked for I lost them for him. I mean he has a completely different belief and completely different goals in life.
He won't accept rejection, he won't accept a no, he won't stop bringing it up and being mad about it. And let me remind you, I've explained it to him 12 TIMES why we can't be together. 12. He just tells me that he doesn't care.
Wtf do I do?
(Sorry if I sound rude, I'm just frustrated. I'm not usually this rude)
