Don’t you think I should have pretty women chasing me?

[Anonymous]

I’m a good looking guy. Almost a lawyer. I’m above 6 foot. Well groomed. Nice person. No girlfriend.

I’ve had more guys tell me I’m handsome than girls 😳

I feel like I need to a billionaire or something. This is crazy.

Yeah you should get girls chasing you

No I disagree

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I’m also slim and fit

[Effably]

I am going to level with you.

I went to uni at a Swedish institution for law and commerce. No.1 in my country.
Entry? Perfect grades and then some. Not a 4. Something GPA, perfect or beat it. This is where every super wealthy person goes by tradition.

I'm 6' . To be fair most Swedes my generation are. Its our average height so nothing special. Still I have an inch or two on most.

I am also well groomed, fit, years of mma and calisthenics-minded exercise. I am you minus the almost and with sprinkles on top.

None of that makes girls chase me. All these things are very nice. They're pleasant bonuses when you reveal them. That's all they are. Nice things she can tell people about you. Its parental acceptance and a few bragging rights. Nothing more.

What has lead to my relative dating success was three very different basic things.

1. Actually putting myself out there. 0x0 = 0 after all.

2. Learning to converse. Good conversation is a lost art and the amount of people who become outright obsessed with you when you can geninuely fascinate them is well above 0.

3. Learning to flirt. It was an awkward but funny experience. The sense of empowerment when I finally went from feeling awkward to realizing I could have people blushing and twirling their hair with some minor changes to my demeanor is hard to fully articulate but it was life-changing.

[Anonymous]

The most important thing is knowing how to build attraction. I know a guy that is in his mid 40's, 5'7 and that works a manual job. He prefers being single but I've lost count of the amount of women I've seen chasing him. He has been approached quite a few times as well. Sometimes women just come over to him, strand right next to him and say nothing.

Another guy that noticed this said the girls just wanted to be around his energy. This guy knows how to build attraction. Women also get upset when they discover he has no interest in marriage or relationships. All of the things you mentioned can work for you, but without knowing how to build attraction none of those things will matter. This is because attraction from women to men needs to be built, but attraction from men to women is built through their looks mostly.

[Anonymous]

Your description lists only your physical attributes, nothing about personality or character. Most women aren’t going to be chasing after looks and jobs, a guy has to be someone enjoyable to be around.

[EmmaMary]

Do you honestly think any girl is ever likely to want chasing such a self conceited, arrogant, egotistical individual.

I'll give you the answer here and now...NO.

[Asker]

Yet you’re the one being rude, disrespectful and narcissistic 🤔

[EmmaMary]

Oh no I'm not, I'm just giving you the hard fact truth... Nothing More Nothing Less... Sorry.

[Asker]

Men live in the real world. Women don’t.

Fact according to who? Someone I wouldn’t want to be anything like.

[EmmaMary]

What a complete and utter load of nonsense.

Sometimes the truth always hurts.

Goodbye.

[Asker]

Yet you overlook, I have everything going for me.
I’ve so many rude girls get all the guys they want and they are ‘empowered’ women.

[Asker]

You can’t even articulate or explain yourself. Joke.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AviatorTom]

Dating is like shopping for clothes. You have to go to the store, where the clothes are, and look around until you find one you like, then take it to the cashier, let them know you want to buy it, and take it out of the store. Then, take good care of your clothes. Wear them... often... and treat them nicely. You may occasionally spill something on them, and when you do, be sure to clean them and learn so you don't do the same spill again.

[OfMiceandMen]

I don't think a lot of women chase good looking guys anymore because most expect they're taken. You may have to put yourself out there and make it known.

Why not chase them a little and see what happens rather than waiting for them to make the move.

[exitseven]

No. Being almost a lawyer is like being a little bit dead.

[Staximus]

Make your interest known.

[Billlewis]

I think so.

[jahaims]

It takes more than that.

[LiamJHayden]

If it is not happening there is a reason.

[ab2shifty]

Ay bruh calm down with the glazing 🤣