When it comes to dating, what is your warning label?

[bobalife]

If you have a pet, I love animals and might get distracted to adore and be more obsess with them🙊😂

[DaBiggestBird]

Hmmm, obviously being I am a Giga Chad unlike any other AND Da Biggest Bird, it’s borderline impossible I’d waste my time on some generic hoe, so really the only situation I could find myself conflicted in is if I invited a Yandere stalker to spend the night or something like that. In that case, the warning would be “if you do anything bad, I’ll probably kill you”. The standard here is either a simple throat slitting or 20 stabs basically anywhere else. Da Biggest Bird speaks Da Biggest facts.

[EmyyWolf]

You, 🫵 imbecile.
Are not a Giga Chad.
Stop lying to everyone.
People aren’t stupid and gullible like you think

[DaBiggestBird]

@EmyyWolf Of course not all mortals are.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

My wife posted this meme she thought described me to my friends and they agreed, "Yep, that's him." Might also serve as a good warning label:

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I instantly broke up with ex-girlfriends twice when they tried to give me an ultimatum and hold our relationship hostage. I killed the hostage.

I can be reasoned with, gently, but impossible to control.

[bobalife]

Lmao your wife must be the remote to your control 🤭

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

She has a unique way of bringing out the more reasonable side of me, for sure!

[bobalife]

Awwww so cute!!! 🥺🥹😭 #wifeygoals

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Is it bad if I might come with a remote? 🎮🕹

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@PBandJ_Nerd If we're on a serious note, the problem I always saw is that if we cave into coercive demands, who knows what they'll demand next?

For example, one of my exes that I instantly broke up with this way gave me the ultimatum to choose between her and my friends. The problem from my perspective wasn't the choice she presented but the way she demanded it in a controlling way. I did care about her more than my friends. Had I needed to make the decision for any other reason besides her demanding it, I would have chosen her and sacrificed my friendships.

Yet had I caved into her controlling demands, I would have made myself her bitch (if you'll excuse my French) for the rest of the relationship which she held hostage. So I figuratively shot the hostage because that's not a future relationship I'd ever want is one where she can force me to do things whenever she wants by holding the relationship hostage.

So in contexts like these in selecting someone with whom we'll potentially spend the rest of our lives, I actually think some degree of stubbornness and refusal to be controlled is a virtue and not a vice, unless we're content with a relationship with a controlling wife or husband who'll coerce us into things we don't want to do possibly all the time.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@PBandJ_Nerd I'm also the opposite of a controlling type myself. I'm thoroughly against coercing others into doing things against their will. I believe all healthy relationships are based on openness, compromise, trust, and above all else, free choice.

I do draw the line and allow myself to be controlled and coerced by my bosses if they demand we do this or threaten to start firing people, or police officers who demand I comply or else they'll be forced to arrest or shoot me. But I don't have to marry those bosses or police officers and give a wedding vow to love them and stay devoted and faithful to them for the rest of my life.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I wasn't quite thinking about coercive, but I guess if it is meant in a toxic & abusive way then yes, that's always bad. But this is also why we have boundaries, to keep us safe from such things. So, maybe having a remote with limited options is more accurate.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@PBandJ_Nerd That sounds like a healthy balance to me if you want another to impose some degree of structure and control over your life but never to an unreasonable degree.

I'm probably a bit too extreme for my own good but I don't want anyone but me to impose my own sense of structure and control over my life. I want to be the sole boss of me, so to speak, and I want my wife to be the sole boss of her. I am as allergic to bossing people around as I am allergic to being bossed around. So I strongly prefer relationships where there's no need for anyone to boss anyone around.

One thing I do deeply appreciate that my wife does though is that she voluntarily trusts me to be the boss on the few matters that affect the entire household. That puts me in the best position to be the ultimate protector of my family's well-being which I appreciate since a lot of my male pride is attached to it. But I'm not a bossy boss even in those cases. Very often I'll even go with my wife's idea for an executive decision since she has the better ideas. It's just that she trusts me to make that choice for our whole family, and I appreciate that.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Your hair is now my hair and I will play with it non stop.

I should put that warning on tinder

[bobalife]

Lmaooo! That’s cute and funny, I don't know why but I also love playing with a guy’s hair especially adoring him, making out, and other things

[JHAYES317]

What if they are bald and don’t have hair lol?

[wiltingrosepetal]

1. I'm 18, male pattern baldness will not be affecting my dating pool.
2. Hair is a pretty big factor in how attractive he is to me so I probably wouldn't go on a date with at all if he had it buzzed 🙃

[JHAYES317]

1. Uh…actually that’s not true…plenty of guys lose their hair in their late teens…multiple guys when I was in college were severely thinning, yeah they weren’t bald bald, but still.

2. That’s unfortunate…and as you get older and realize guys can’t control losing their hair, maybe you’ll gain some empathy. I get it if it makes them slightly less attractive, but to completely write someone off solely due to stuff they can’t control like height, dick size, or hair loss is kinda silly in my opinion

[wiltingrosepetal]

I said 'buzzed' 🧍‍♀️
As in, if he actively has chosen to remove his hair, I won't find him very attractive. So yeah he can control that 😃

[DizzyDesii]

X

[MertJK]

Haha, pets have a way of capturing our hearts! They're great companions and bring so much joy into our lives. If you ever get a pet, I'm sure they'll steal your heart too! 🐾

[bobalife]

They doooo! Hehe one of my dreams is to become a fur mama🥹🤭 by the way you forgot to answer the question what’s your warning label 🤔

[MertJK]

Yes you are right ☺️

[NathanDavis]

"I'm going for your soul..."

https://www.youtube.com/embed/K8nCqLB-Ugw

[bobalife]

That’s rather sweet~

[Drew-1990]

First off you stay away from my dogs, they are mine lol. I guess if you want my warning label it's "beware I am nerd" I have a sword on my wall from a video game 😅

[BarryLiverstone]

Stubborn as a rock! Requires patience and understanding for best results.

[bobalife]

LOL!!! Maybe this big rock also needs a hug to be at ease~ 😊

[BarryLiverstone]

Definitely !

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I got the similar case! I don't put any real stock in astrology but I'm Taurus there and seem to fit.

[DevikaButts95]

Warning: Will sit on your face for hours daily.
Lmao I'm a facesitting addict. It can actually be tough to deal with.

[KrakenAttackin]

WARNING: He thinks lightly of himself and deeply of the world.

[bobalife]

Aws I loved that 😊

[KrakenAttackin]

@bobalife. Why thank you.

[Anonymous]

If she's from the U. S. That's it. USA culture is toxic, hateful, divisive, attention seeking, self destructive, untrustworthy... the list goes on and on. It doesn't have the highest divorce rate BY A WIDE MARGIN globally, and an 80 percent total increase in Syphilis cases the last 5 years for no reason.☝️

[Pupweb]

Warning: Engaging in serious thinking marathon. Requires patience and a tolerance for awkward silences Proceed with caution: may contain random thoughts and the meaning of life.

[Danny_dan92]

The second you act like you’re single, that will become the reality

[Blessedme]

I want someone with pet that's cute shit to me. I love cats.

[bobalife]

FRFR, def need a fur papa to my future pets! 🥹 lmao

[SunnyRS]

I don't like two timing or open relationships or talking/flirting with people taken.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well you'd love me I have a lapdog and he's sooooooo cute he's only 7 pound and u love him to death

[genericname85]

"warning, not accessible for emotional bullshit and drama"

[sirderpsalot123]

Warning this is the most annoying and self deprecating person you’ve ever met

[sirderpsalot123]

Do you like reptiles?

[bobalife]

Aws don’t say that… I’ve seen some your stuff, you’re funny lol. Ahhh I be scared of reptiles, but I’ll admire it from a far behind a glass wall 🥲😂

[sirderpsalot123]

Thank you! 😎

A big dog could do a lot more harm than a tiny lizard lol

[bobalife]

Uh oh, I LOVE dogs!!! It is forbidden here to say that 😤😂

[sirderpsalot123]

Lol, I like dogs but reptiles are superior

[bobalife]

How so?🧐

[sirderpsalot123]

Reptiles are easier to take care of. They are completely content to be by themselves and dont make much noise. You don't have to walk them. Cheaper to feed. The list of reasons why reptiles are superior is endless

[bobalife]

I see you’re a reptile bias. Not bad, almost sound like caring for a cat Lmaooo. I’m a dog bias and staying loyal 🙃

[sirderpsalot123]

Don't even get m started on cats. Cats are jerks lol

[sirderpsalot123]

But fine. We'll just have to agree to disagree lol

[bobalife]

What? ! 😂 I’m shook since most men seem obsessed with cats lately lol. Literally almost all gag dudes be talkin about cats and some on social media. It’s okay, reptiles are cool. I’m just scare of ‘em 🥺

[sirderpsalot123]

I actually do have a cat lol I love my cat, but I've hated every other cat I've met because they always hate me. I was only supposed to be fostering my cat for someone else but we ended up keeping her. She's still a jerk tho lol

[bobalife]

Omg I can’t 😂

[sirderpsalot123]

It's technically more my girlfriend's cat, but it's my cat 🤫

[Anonymous]

Women who feel the need to post pics of their boobs or cleavage.

[bobalife]

this is about you lol

[Opinion Owner]

Well, or of yeah. Because I have stadards and all.

[Opinion Owner]

sort or yeah

[bobalife]

No, I mean this is about /your/ warning signs, not others lmao

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, sorry. I get it now.

My warning label is I have my shit together and I expect women I date to have their shit together. Some women don't take kindly to that.

[bobalife]

it’s fair, but it’s all about how people approach

[KittygosMeoWW]

Warning!!! Not here for bare minimum

[bobalife]

Yasss, I’m the same way & hope other women doesn’t settle for less either.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Yes!!

[JHAYES317]

What does that mean? Like you need a guy to be tall and have a big dick? Or more that you want them to spoil you with expensive gifts and trips?

[KittygosMeoWW]

@JHAYES317 I wouldn’t mind a tall guy with a big dick lol or someone who’s love language is gifts but I was referring to time/emotional investment

[JHAYES317]

Time/emotional investment is fair…though also expecting him to never hang out with his friends and always spend time with you every night is kinda toxic…

I suppose you are a size queen then, which is your right to have that preference, but for me gold digging is more of a turn off, like I guess occasionally, maybe for holidays or special occasions, gifts can be nice, but if they are constantly buying you expensive things…that’s a very transactional relationship

[KittygosMeoWW]

@JHAYES317 within limitations of course, in the end it will be up to me to make that decision. Never once did I state I would need expensive gifts, outings, or all their time. I will never settle for someone who will not put in effort, gifts don’t always have to be bought. They can be made.

[KrakenAttackin]

@KittygosMeoWW. Sounding pretty shallow there.

[KittygosMeoWW]

@KrakenAttackin well isn’t it a great thing that I’d never date you?

[KrakenAttackin]

@KittygosMeoWW Oh my heart be still... you won't date me... my life is over...

It's always funny when I hear girls who offer nothing but sex talk about not accepting "the bare minimum".

[KittygosMeoWW]

@KrakenAttackin I never offered you sex talk but great, it’s always funny when guys make my opinions about themselves. Giving narcissistic vibes huh 😘

[KrakenAttackin]

@KittygosMeoWW. Reread my post.

[KittygosMeoWW]

@KrakenAttackin lol no thx…feel free to keep telling me how I don’t fit into your category of fuck/date/spank bank material. I don’t block, I’m sure I’ll see you in my dms or other opinions.

[bobalife]

Let’s not attack each other here 😅 it’s okay she knows what she wants and it’s fair. It’s okay if you’re not keen and have your own preferences too. We all have our own cup of teas and should be respectful of what each looks for :)

And to be fair, generally easy people with no standards would take the bare minimum and below lol.

[KrakenAttackin]

@KittygosMeoWW. DM's , no. Opinions, yes.

[KittygosMeoWW]

@bobalife You’re nice

@KrakenAttackin lol 👍🏼

[JayBones]

The same warning as the Gremlins. (It's a movie from the 80's )

[IloveWinters]

For me it would if she is too much emotional and creates drama for every small thing lol

[bobalife]

LOL wait this is about /your/ warning label about you (not her), but good to know! 😂

[IloveWinters]

Lolll... , 😆

[bobalife]

Lol let’s hear it 😂

[IloveWinters]

I sometimes get hell lot involved emotionally which someone can consider as overkill lol

[bobalife]

emotional investment is a good thing for a committed relationship

[IloveWinters]

Indeeed but can be overkill

[bobalife]

It is a narrative framework & approach, but it’s more powerful when a man can be open and admit he is emotional. Thanks for being honest!

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Warning: Is very loving 💖

[Sonorous]

Warning: I'm just here for the cheeks

[bobalife]

😂😂😂

[Likes2drive]

Beware of kindness and attention

[abc3643]

Best Before 1991.

[IslaTheWitch]

lying and pretending...

[NathanDavis]

hmm... do you mean that as a "red flag" you're wary of, if you notice in others...

or do you mean you're actually some sort of AI alien-form trying to infiltrate... and I should be wary of...

[IslaTheWitch]

@NathanDavis oh... I will neither confirm nor deny my AI status... but, I must admit, it would be quite amusing and intriguing if such a scenario were to be true, wouldn't it?

[NathanDavis]

well... I'm actually a very smart chair...

[IslaTheWitch]

@NathanDavis lmao

but you are right, I misread the question and wrote about the red flags in others, lol

[JHAYES317]

Oof yeah not many guys would want to date a girl who would lie to them…

[NathanDavis]

or people that lie to themselves...

[WhitneySnow]

I’m absent minded

[Nice222]

I have two cats.

[msc545]

Warning smarter than you

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545. You should warn about your 14" cock 😉

[msc545]

@KrakenAttackin Don't tell anyone please... but... it's only 1.5 inches...

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545. Sure buddy, I know you used to slay...

[msc545]

Okay yeah I admit it. It's 1.6 in

[exitseven]

He bites.

[shortster]

Emotions rarely present.

[Amur8711]

Lol yours is understandable

[bobalife]

Lol yknow it, your dog… 🥹 but what’s yours? !

[Amur8711]

I don't know if I have one

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Don't cause me stress and annoyance.

[CubaPirate]

Scruffiness and bad manners

[Yannae]

Warning. Cold Hands.

[bobalife]

😂😂 it’s okay I’m sure your girlfriend warms it for you

[Yannae]

She surprisingly doesn't mind. My ex would jump. I miss my freeze powers xD

[bobalife]

Ugh lmao you’re like my ex cuz he used to do that to me with his freezing hands and feet that I would jump & run off 😭😂

[Tinat]

Don't love deep.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I'm not romantic

[Zoi99]

“I’m to demanding”

[JHAYES317]

In what sense? Like you want princess treatment?

[Zoi99]

No I know what i want. It seems to cause problems.