What are the dating mistakes you can't accept?

[azgınteke]

What are your red lines when you start dating someone new? What do you say "this thing won't work any more"?

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Dating mistakes?

I have never dated in my life but yes in general with people I have plenty of deal breakers, things that I cannot accept or tolerate.

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[Shiningtempest]

@azgınteke Dating mistakes I can't accept are butchering my name, showing up late, & changing schedule at the last minute.

[DaveJord]

So, I been online dating for three years pretty successfully and consistently. I mean I have experienced so many different things... like I have seen so much I can't even truthfully say I have even scratched the surface, but I can honestly say nothing surprises me anymore.

So, let me start listing things.

1. Single mother with a full-time job with young kids and dad is 100% out of the picture. It's a non-starter, trust me she has no time to be dating. She is just lonely and could probably benefit from a good boning every now and then... but she has no time for a truly committed relationship... but that what they all want. No hook ups... commitment is a must. Sorry I raised my kids, and they are grown and gone... not interested in rising someone else's kids. Now if you are a guy with kids, and you want to make a combined family with someone, then yes single moms are great.

2. Any woman with high anxiety and openly admits to making lots of process in theory. Trust me, there is so much going on there beneath the surface. They can be amazing and fun relationships for about 3 to 6 months tops honestly. Eventually the crazy takes over. Trust me.

3. Single female, that is 40 years old, no children, doesn't want children, never married. Bottom line, they never married and never had kids, and never wanted kids... for a REASON! Trust me, just assume childhood trauma. These are types like single moms, they only want committed relationship, when honestly, she hasn't really ever had one. Just shack up with a guy once or twice month and call it committed relationship.

4. These women that are training for a marathon for no reason at all, like why? Honestly if they spend more than 6 hours a week working out, surfer chicks, wind surfers... man I could tell you a story about wind surfers. So, these types are the most self-indulgent people in the world. They literally have taken a hobby and made it into a lifestyle. These are ones that have come out of a divorce and just needs to find a healthy outlet to invest time into. Its a total self-investment they are making in themselves, and it leaves no room for someone who quit honestly lets their hobbies just be hobbies. People work out and do actives as a way to spend spare time doing something productive. But once your hobby becomes a lifestyle then you really limit yourself to who can date. They usually want you do have the same hobbies as them, and to care about it as much as they do. And honestly, I do the hobby without a woman, but I want a woman to be spend time with and chill.


5. Any woman that says she doesn't need a man to take care of her. Well, this all well and true... but then what do you really want a man for then? What do you want a long-term commitment with a man, when you just literally said you don't really need one... so, what do you want one for? Again, just shack up once or twice a month and call it a committed relationship. Thats all most men want anyway.

6. Pet parents... just saying pet parents are annoying as hell. That's all there is to it, their attachment to animals really puts a damper on things. Like pets are not people, so I have no idea what insecurity you have that you need to dress a dog up like a person... and treat it like a kid. I find it so unattractive. These types will never care for you as much as they do that dog. Trust me!!!

Okay that's enough for now, there is literally so many things I could just keep going.

[jennifer_bloom]

Gossip. If a guy gossips about me, he's gets thrown into the trash folder.

[marrk]

Trash talking or gossiping-basically putting others down-I have two tests one date one:

1. What is your ex like/why did you break up?

2. What is your mom like?

If you can’t talk about either of them in a respectful way to a stranger, even if something went bad, then I can’t trust you. You shouldn’t air out your dirty laundry with someone who at one point was quite close to you (or still is) with someone you just met. I don’t trust that.

[CrimsonAngel09]

1) Going to parties knowing full well you have a date the next day.

Guy I dated in 2011, I got ready for our usual date, even washed my hair, brushed it, all ready.

Waited and waited in my living room, finally texted him where he was. He then told me he was recovering from a hangover because he went to a party the day before.

2) Not liking pets.

3) Most importantly, if he doesn't want kids at all I can't be with someone like that.

[whoknowsb]

Lives for stereotypes; isn’t able to talk when problems arise - interpretation: either is afraid of it, thinks it will go with “time”, i don’t know, but without honesty and by being direct it doesn’t work, at least for the future. Not open-minded, has to have things their way. Selfish and arrogant. Really good talent with words but lacks on actions - i can write my own novel, thanks. Doesn’t take things seriously when things get serious.

[Wonderingguyy]

If I think back to when I was dating my biggest no’s were probably if the person is boring/dry, if they have bad personal hygiene, if they have cheated and if they are rude to random people for example waiting staff.

[Nikki1989]

Bad communication and asking too many personal questions.

[LiamJHayden]

Mistakes?

1. She is rude to servers.
2. She asks me my income/net worth early in dating.
3. She manufactures drama.

[msc545]

lying, rudeness and being late are three things I won't tolerate right in the beginning.

[Anonymous]

To sleep on a first date and then they leave. Has not really happened to me but it is rude of the guy. hahaha

[genericname85]

if she sees someone else, i'm out.

[Christoff92]

Stereotyping and dictating.

[Billlewis]

Showing up an hour late at the restaurant.

[Jamie05rhs]

Poor communication.