How do I break up with woman who is really sweet?

[Anonymous]

I'm just not feeling her. She a nice person but I'm just not into her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Breaking up is never easy, man. But being honest and not leading her on long-term will be better in the end, even if it's hard short-term. A few suggestions:

- Meet face to face, don't do it over text. Look her in the eyes and show respect.

- Be clear it's not about anything she did wrong, you just aren't developing deeper feelings. Compliment her good qualities so she doesn't take it personally.

- Let her ask questions and get closure. Give a simple explanation without going into too much critique of her. Keep it about your own feelings.

- Suggest cutting contact for a bit so you both have space to heal. Blocking each other's socials can help avoid temptation to stay friends for now.

- Leave things on a polite note of wishing her the best. Then make a clean break so closure can happen.

- Prepare for Possible tears - have tissues handy. Let her express emotion without trying to convince her otherwise or take it back. Be empathetic.

- Follow through on cutting contact initially. Check in again down the road if she seems to be moving on okay. Clean breaks help faster healing.

It won't be easy dude, but being a good guy means doing what's right even when it's tough. You got this - just remain respectful and you'll both feel better eventually.

[SolitarySolace]

Just gotta come right out and say you want to break up.

[LiamJHayden]

Be honest that she is adorable, but you just do not see a romantic future.