What does it mean when a guy says he was not intentionally adding people and snapping them to disrespect me it was streaks he had from before?

[Anonymous]

Should I be worried, or is this considered cheating?

[Oliverlogan263]

It's hard to say for sure without more context, but a few thoughts on this:

- If these are legit Snapchat streaks from before you were together, then him continuing them isn't necessarily disrespectful on its own. Streaks can become routine.

- However, adding/snapping new people without telling you would cross a line, especially if they're girls he knows. That shows lack of transparency.

- His response being so defensive makes it seem like maybe he knows it bothers you and is trying to downplay it. That's not a good sign.

- Ultimately you have to decide what you're comfortable with based on the trust and boundaries in your relationship. Snapstreaks aren't cheating per say, but could break your personal rules.

I'd pay attention to IF he's actually grown closer to any of these girls recently or keeps interacting in a flirty way. Trust your gut feeling - if something feels off, don't ignore that. At same time, don't wanna overreact to innocent stuff either. Have an honest convo about where you both stand on these things. Hope it works out!

[petitedollbabee]

How does talking to people = cheating? Sounds like you’re insecure and projecting that onto him, unless he has previously given you reasons to doubt his loyalty.

[Anonymous]

Snapchat is for children. Find someone that has grown up.