Using a girls slang, wouldn't asking a girl out on a date be by definition a male being a simp?

[Sharkstealth]

[Juxtapose]

That's actually one of the reasons why I don't like initiating. They expect you to pay because you initiated even though that does not work in literally any other social situation. If I ask my friends if they want to go eat somewhere, they don't expect me to pay for them.

And we all know women do not initiate nearly as much as men and that is on purpose.

So if you initiate as a man, you are enabling this bullshit double standard and playing right into the machinations of manipulators.

[Billlewis]

That's one possibility.

[laly520]

it isn't being a simp when u ask a girl out

[Sharkstealth]

A guy would be throwing money at you with the interest in romance.

[laly520]

what does money has to do with it

[Sharkstealth]

That's the definition of it.

[laly520]

oh yes definition of a simp

[Sharkstealth]

Kind of a catch 22. I want it this way but if I get it then your not good enough.

[laly520]

what u mean by that

[Sharkstealth]

If a guy takes you out on a date and you like him then he's a man but if you don't like him he is a simp.

[laly520]

no? if she doesn't like him then it isn't meant to be
it doesn't make him a simp

[Sharkstealth]

It's a power play by women to degrade men but it backfired. That's why there is such a debate on whether men should pay for the date. Your married so you fall in to a different attitude. It caused men to not respect women.

[laly520]

im not married yet but engaged
n yes I agree with u on point of not disrespecting such people

[chrissykerdock]

better than being asked to give head