My first girlfriend (and my true love) asked me out. Basically, I met her on the first day of her senior year/my junior year of high school. I liked her the moment we met, but wanted to be wise and wait and see if my feelings for her were there after a month of hanging out with her. However, things progressed faster than I thought and she asked me out on the 4th day. I say let love happen how it happens (LGBT BS does not count because it is against God's will). It is stupid for us or society to say that the man ALWAYS has to be the initiator. Sometimes the woman realizes it first.
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I don't think so especially in this day and age where I've seen women purpose to men and gay marriage is legal. The only problem is the society is still not ok with change, so a man that grow up in a home where he's taught to not hit women, the man should pay for all the dates, or even the man has to make the first move he's being taught that stuff at a young age and it sticks with him. So everyone is different, he might not care that you asked him out on a date or he might feel like his pride is destroyed.
I like when men take the initiative for the first date. After that if I like them, Ill do/say whatever I want. If I wanna hang out with them, I'll ask them on a date. I don't think it's strange for a girl to ask first, either, I'm just always too scared lol.
this is 2020 but I would never ask out a guy... I have about 20 ways to hint but that's just me... I know in CA they do (girls) ask out men all the time.
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typically from data I have collected by myself and with friends (both guys and girls).
guys often have a 50/50 shot. when asking a girl out that she'll say yes.
where as girls asking out a guy. have a 70/30 shot he'll say yes.
again this is just from data I and friends (both guys and girl) have collected.Not at all! There is nothing wrong with a woman asking a man out, and some men are not really "chasers", just like how some women prefer to go after who they want rather than wait around for the man to do it.
Which one asks the other out, should depend entirely on who wants to do it, not their gender.No, but just understand if you think you're going to be the man in the relationship then will never be what you thought or hoped it would be. Women come to loath weak men.
If your guy is to weak to go after what he wants, he'll do this with EVERYTHING. And you'll be completely bored out of your mind.It is not strange but girls will only ask a guy for a date if he is well out of her league. I have been asked and, since it seldom happens, usually I would accept. However, I have never been asked by anyone I would consider girlfriend material and most of the time, even when I wanted to be nice and accepted, I wouldn't even fuck her even though they would all let me know they were willing to fuck.
Fuck no! I think that's hot.
And you make an interesting point. Most young boys are not very assertive and if they have a good heart, they would most likely say yes. That's your chance to shine.Try bumble, that app is for girls to ask guys out. I think it empowers women to feel like they can choose the guy they want to go out with.
not strange, jus shocking, u never expect a girl to ask a girl out.
seems like guys shd do it onlyI don't think it's strange at all. I think it's a great thing and girls should feel free to take the initiative.
I think if she likes him, I don’t see why it would be strange for her to ask him on a date.
No! I wish more men would step up and at least show interest in a guy they like. If you just show the guy that you won't brutally reject him you will be much more likely to have a nice date.
Yes. It shows weakest on the mans part. I would NEVER expect a date from a female who asked me out. I'd be truly insulted.
Nope. I have been approached/asked out many times over the years. I never felt it strange.
No, it was done to me few times. It is 2020. Girls can make first move it is legal.
Unless you want to wait untill he do it, but you might wait forever and hints do not work.No, not at all, I think it's more strange to not ask out someone you like, just holding yourself back ya know?
I think either way is ok, maybe she wants to go out and he is not aware of her or is pondering a problem at work
No because I've been on the receiving end of it once. But it's a bold move.
No not strange at all i ll be super exited and ill make sure i give everything i got to her.
Not at all! I’d be flattered if a girl asked me out.
You're down to chill? Just to let me know about it, I will make it happen.
No, it's not strange, and it needs to happen more often.
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