Was I shit tested?

[Anonymous]

So I met this girl off tinder she invited me over we had already smoked before but it had been like a couple months I’ll admit I’m a pretty decent looking guy I’m about 6’4 kinda slim I’ve gotten over 200 matches on tinder so most times I meet women on tinder they automatically think I’m a player/fuck boy kinda am but whatever so we smoke but she’s barely smoking I mean we had 2 blunts she’s barely tapping the blunt she basically tapped by the second blunt I was super high but she was acting very strange/weird laughing A LOT like none stop constant giggling other than that she wasn’t even talking really just focused on the tv she keep laughing to the point I got annoyed and called her weird. She did admit she was shy like she said she only wanted to be friends that’s cool but she just sat there doing nothing not even engaged like I wasn’t there. She said she just met me but I could tell she was attracted to me, I even think she was scared to hug me like wtf I wasn’t tryna make a move I’d ask questions to start convos but she’d kinda shy away like she basically called me over to not acknowledge me I eventually left, I’m confused

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Now that I think about it she was trying to get me loaded to admit my true intentions lol I’ve been smoking too long for that to work, if I were drunk I would’ve talked more but that’s interesting no other girl has done that, that’s a new one. She said I was her type but only wanted to be friends , I figured she was attracted to me but didn’t trust me I’m a tatted kinda street guy so most college girls only want me for 1 thing but I’ll charge it to the game oh well

[Anonymous]

What is shit tested? I feel confused as to what this question is lol, like are you asking why she was so shy? Or laughing a lot?

[Asker]

I seen it used basically how a girl weeds you out when she doesn’t trust you or something or wants to know your true intentions

[Opinion Owner]

Ohh ok, never heard that phrase lol. Well tbh it just sounds like she was a bit nervous and intimidated, probably not trying to be weird. If you have experience dating girls then you probably don’t really get much of that feeling. But since she’s said she is a bit shy and stuff then it’s probably new for her.

[Opinion Owner]

Online dating can be pretty intimidating when you’re in the frame of mind that she is. There’s all those nerves about meeting then unsure of what he’ll think of you when you get together in person. I don't know if she smokes much but I’m sure being high didn’t help much when she was already feeling that way.

[Agagagagaga]

“Shit testing” is a term that many use to describe the hoops that women make men jump through. Lots of things can be used to test you.

[Opinion Owner]

Wow, in California we call it playing games lol

[Opinion Owner]

But I guess that phrase works both ways. Never heard shit testing out here

[Asker]

She let me get super high hoping I’d reveal my true intentions lol she liked me but didn’t trust me lol sneaky , most college girls are usually easy , oh well

[Asker]

We had linked before this was the 2nd time

[Opinion Owner]

That could be the reason, trust is hard for some people so if that’s what’s her case then she probably shouldn’t be dating until she’s ready. Anyway don’t let those experiences make you think all girls are a certain way bc it’s not true. You’re in college so it’ll probably be a lot of bs right now.

[Asker]

I’m not in college , college girls are just attracted to me but I’m not mad at the situation she went with her gut , on to the next

[JoyGirl]

She was shy and nervous.