My boyfriend of one year, we are in a long-distance relationship and have never been intimate since he's so busy with his job, plus he lives three hours away from me. (We've kissed and held hands, but I don't really get to see him because of his job) Feels more like we're just friends at this point tbh.
He sent me pictures of him in New Orleans and sent me a long text saying "As much as I'd love to kiss you in a hotel room before my business meetings even if I could have taken you with me, I wouldn't have been comfortable bringing you and taken you out for dinner on such dangerous streets because of how beautiful you are."
Is this normal for a guy to say if he likes you? I just thought it was strange, because I know for a fact I'm not pretty. Yes, I have low self-esteem and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Second, I never asked to go with him on this trip anyway, so he just messaged me out of the blue after not texting me since Sunday. Not that it's a big deal, since I'm used to not hearing back from him for days/weeks.
And I don't know much about New Orleans anyway or how dangerous the streets are, but I highly doubt someone would kidnap me. Guys don't typically look in my direction since I'm not sexy. I'm just an average nerdy looking girl with glasses, RBF, who wears baggy shirts that cover her butt. In short, I dress like a boy, so the only feminine thing about me are my boobs which are somewhat big.
So, when he sent me that text, I felt really doubtful, so I wanted to get some other guys' input on it. Wouldn't you want to take your girlfriend out someplace nice to eat and spend time together? Or if it normal for a guy to feel possessive and want to hide them from the world? I don't think the latter is true but I don't know... Starting to wonder if that text was a red flag. I don't have much dating experience to back me up tho.
I hope this question doesn't annoy anyone. Thank you in advance.
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