Is it bad that my boyfriend stopped inviting me to go places with him?

[lyra99]

Also, is it wrong of me to keep up with his whereabouts and get angry with him because he never communicates with me in that subject?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yes it's wrong, but it's not your fault. The problem with so many relationships are the boundaries with which they are built on. Let me explain.
If you start a relationship as you mean it to go on then that's fine, but so many start off very intense, then one or sometimes both parties will want to ease off the amount they see each other or not go out so much etc etc.
That will then give the impression that things are cooling off, when in fact had they of started like that there wouldn't be such a problem.

Does that make sense?

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you committed to an exclusive relationship? I hope not, because it sounds as if you need to keep looking for someone. This isn't the guy.

[lyra99]

We are actually engaged at the moment. I didn't want to feel like I was crazy and over protective. I just want him to communicate and spend some time with me.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are engaged and he doesn't want you to go places with him? That is a horrible sign! HORRIBLE!

[Siren777]

When you go out, does it always end in an argument? Give him some space and when you're ready speak to him about it. I suggest having your own life. Find things to do instead of keeping a watchful eye on him. That's not healthy and when he finds out he will be angrier and might end things with you.

[lyra99]

Oh no he knows. I have no problem with him going and doing his own thing.

[lyra99]

I just wish it was communicated better.

[TheBootyChest]

Don't get angry with him. Just move on. If communication is key for in a relationship than you should ask for that. If this guy doesn't want to give that to you, then find a guy who will.

[In_Trance]

Smh... how would this possibility be good?

[lyra99]

Because we've been together for 5 years and he's never home anymore maybe?