Do guys lose interest or love you less if they see a prettier girl?

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Flatmanlewis · Accepted Answer

Under age 18, there is a decent chance of that.

Between 18 & end of college age, it’s not uncommon but I’d say it depends on the people involved too.

Over 21 but under 30, maybe. Depends on the guy and a few other factors like how mature he is, where he is at in life, and how much history he has with you.

Over 30, far less likely but not impossible. At this point most (not all, but most) men have settled into the life they want to live. If he’s a player then he probably isn’t growing out of that at this point. If he’s married or with a long term girlfriend, then also, probably not.

The danger is - regardless of age - when the woman he’s with has devolved into the control freak, or nag, and no longer shows him respect. She thinks she’s bagged her man and stops treating him like she did when they met, with respect and caring. If and when that happens, should some pretty girl come along who also treats him with the respect he’s craving, well…I’ll say I’ve seen how that turns out a few times.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

No.

If a hot girl walks by, we're going to look - just like we're going to look if a Ferrari drives by, or a big speed boat on a trailer or whatever. But that doesn't mean our feelings for our girl has changed at all - that's not how it works.

A man's feelings for a woman are going to be based on her personality, attitude, morals, and values. Looks get you in the door, but it's those other things that keep you there.

What causes men to lose interest is largely when the woman stops showing him respect - including by doing things or acting in ways that are disrespectful to him and their relationship. Women need love, but men need respect. Without respect, we don't feel loved.

whistlingwh0res · Accepted Answer

If they are sugar baby they will lose interest on money. If they want richer woman. Beauty doesn’t count in reality. That’s why beautiful girls are lonely. Boys want rich women $upport them

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

if they love only your face or body - yes, it's possible, but then it's only better for you; you have a chance to find a real boyfriend

RavVid · Answer

I think younger men might be susceptible to switching interest to a prettier girl or the classic tits out hot girl.

A lot of people have observed that girls just have to be good looking enough; nowhere near 10/10 is required. In fact I reverse discriminate against the very pretty girls because most likely they get so much attention they will not be good girlfriend's.

I have met two girls who were beautiful on the inside as well as the outside. It IS rare.

Putting this more graphically, once you are pretty enough to get us hard and wanting to fuck you - that is the job of external beauty done and dusted. The rest comes down to your internal beauty of character and personality.

Anonymous · Answer

For me, it's not that simple. Sure, some people have better looks. But I'll take a downgrade in looks for an upgrade in other things I deem as more important.

Of course, a girl has to pass a threshold of attractiveness for me to even consider her as attractive. But once she does, any increase in looks seems to be an almost unnecessary bonus, making them more interchangeable, looks-wise.

There are many other things about a person that are far more important than looks. I've encountered some absolutely stunning people that I just wouldn't want to actually be around. So, I can't say that I'd simply jump ship for the looks factor alone. They would need to give me some major icks. There would need to be deeper reasoning.

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Answer

That was never true in my case even when I was your age. I can't see how it's true for anyone who ever loved in the first place.

It's like if you have a pet dog or pet cat, do you lose interest in them if someone else shows up with a better-looking pet dog or cat? No, right? Not if you truly love your dog or cat.

For me, it's like that. If I truly love my girlfriend, then it doesn't matter even if a supermodel enters the room. It makes no difference.

SotiCoto · Answer

Doesn't work like that.
Mentally, girls upgrade, guys collect.

What I'm saying is that if they see someone else pretty, they're not thinking: "This one is better than the one I've got already". They're probably thinking: "I want both."

Billlewis · Answer

No, not at all, in my case at least. In fact, the woman with whom I had the longest, most productive relationship with, while certainly attractive, was by no means a 'knockout', but looks aren't what really attract me to a woman, as long as she's not skinny... lol. What matters to me is how well she can maintain her control over me and keep me in line.

sawno · Answer

No, there's always a prettier girl but I am with a partner because she is truly special to me. Just looks won't get you on that level, she would likely not have as great of a personality and she definitely didn't bond with me. So the prettier girl would lose by default to whoever I am with.

libsaretards · Answer

Boys do, men don't.

Boys are immature and short-sighted and want bragging rights.

Men want a true connection with a woman. Her personality and intelligence will carry her farther than her looks. Also, men realize beauty will fade but the person does not.

Iron_Man · Answer

If a guy loves you, he’s not gonna lose interest just because he sees a prettier girl and what makes you think that he thinks that she’s prettier than you anyway. Not everything is about who is the prettiest that just gets your foot in the door from the beginning that’s all. Only teen kids think like that, that have never been in love before

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

No. If he does or ever says but she's prettier or something along those lines then they never loved you.

Generally physically attraction is what draws you in but who that person is and how you feel talking with them, doing things with them, and how you feel around them is more important.

DextroShade · Answer

No, it doesn't work that way. You are confusing sexual market value with relationship market value. There are a lot of women who are attractive but would make terrible girlfriends or wives so men would have sex with them but otherwise want nothing to do with them. If you are fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, submissive, and not a hoe a guy won't leave you even if his eyes wander.

JHAYES317 · Answer

Maybe some guys would…but no if I’m with someone I’m with them because of who they are as a person not what they look like. Looks may draw me in initially, and it would be harder to make a connection if I was physically repulsed by their appearance…but I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve been attracted to women who I otherwise would not have been because of their personality…

MrZameer · Answer

No. It's not true.
If a loyal guy is in relationship with you then he won't run away from you for just any prettier girl,.
But if you're with some creepy guy then he will surely go for prettier one.
But mostly guys don't leave you for prettier one

nawtee_me · Answer

Relationships are not built on pretty. They are built on trust. Pretty changes over time. Either the pretty one changes or the one looking at the pretty one changes what they like. Both happen as we mature. I am sure you are a beautiful girl and have nothing to worry about.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nope, thats not the mindset. The mindset is that the one I'm in a relationship with is the prettiest.  When you love someone, your brain gets biases, and compatiability only reinforces those biases.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

A guy can see a super attractive woman walk by them and completely forget she existed 30 minutes later. There needs to be something behind guy’s losing attraction than just seeing a girl that’s “prettier” than their partner.

AaronKrieger · Answer

You're both teenagers, so it's russian roulette on what he'll do. Anything could happen.

Peridot25 · Answer

As others said, only immature ones do. If your boyfriend suddenly loses interest in you because he found another girl pretty, I say good riddance.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Not really. If he’s interested and wants to get to know more about you a prettier girl is just eye candy

slatyb · Answer

No, they don't. Pretty girls are everywhere. Most of us can be content with one.

thegreenyogi · Answer

It really depends on how strongly they feel about you.

tzdc21 · Answer

No. They lose interest and love you less when/if you stop caring or reciprocating.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I don't. I care about loyalthy and shared interests / having fun.

Anonymous · Answer

No--not at all. We tend to be pretty good at separating out "just hot" from "love."

Anonymous · Answer

She doesn't even have to be prettier, you could be with a hot girl for awhile and then want someone who's not as pretty for variety.

Malwi93 · Answer

that can't possibly be the case then no relationships would last ever

Anonymous · Answer

I think you're insecure around prettier girls. If a guy is with you focus on keep him rather than worry about losing him.

Nikki1989 · Answer

The more immature ones do.

laly520 · Answer

if he cares only about looks then yes

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Only the lowest of us will do that.

In_Trance · Answer

Only if you give them reason to

DreamLife7 · Answer

You need to be focused on books

jahaims · Answer

There is always someone prettier

BLP11520 · Answer

Maybe but not normally.

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't work like that hun.

justabuddy · Answer

Real connections run deeper then that.

JayBones · Answer

Only if the blow jobs stop coming.

Akam93 · Answer

I would think so.

austinbooth · Answer

No I don’t

kareka · Answer

Sure noo

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