Why do men suddenly stop texting?

[Anonymous]

we used to text every day. he used to be very affectionate. He initiated all the time. But he hasn’t texted me for two days. Why do men act, affectionate and loving only to stop texting you suddenly?

[V_Injector]

What do we really have in common? (Men and women) Even your average blue pilled beta orbiter guy is going to get tired of listening to stupid problems and move on if it's not getting him any closer to getting his dick sucked. There is only so much emotional tampon action any man can take before he just says "fuck it" and moves on.

So with all that said... did you ever let him hit it? You sucked him off at all? Or... did you friend zone the hell out of him and just used him for attention?

Me... not my problem. I would've stopped talking to you after the first night of not getting some pooneety and probably banged your fat friend the next day. I don't play the "Nice guy" or "really good friend" roles longer than a night without getting my dick wet in some hot juicy vagina. ... and that brings me to you.

Did you really think a man is just going to be your buddy buddy friend friend and he's not even gay? (He's not gay right?) Naw gurl, the guys that will play that role are desperate for pussy dudes. You know, the types of dudes that will "like" all your pictures on social media. But again, there is only so much of that a dude can give. Did he get some vagina somewhere else? maybe... and that would mean you've become obsolete.

If you were my daughter, I would really try to teach you that guys are not your friends. They all just want some pussy, especially if there is no real shared interest or hobby. I mean think about it... even us dude to dude friends have shared experiences or shit we've been through together. We don't have that dynamic where one of us listens to the other's stupid problems and tries to relate while the other just enjoys the attention. But say you both play guitar as an example, then you really have something to talk about. So yes, there is an exception to the rule if there is a shared interest or hobby between male and female, but that's fucking rare. Like what hobbies do you two share? You two both smoke weed, drink, or do hard drugs? That's a flimsy hobby. What do you two actually share in common other than you like attention and he is horny? What is it? <--if you find yourself drawing a blank from that line of questioning... then just accept you're an attention whore, and he was just a horny dude.

Of course there are plenty of other reasons a man would just stop texting you... but I think I gave the best example for a female that just doesn't understand why a man would stop texting HER. You should check in on your fat friends and see if he's banging one of them.

[Anonymous]

Guys don't really over think that stuff much. They may not even know you found their prior texts affectionate and loving (e. g. they might have just been responding to you).

That said, sometimes if a guy has a strong interest in a girl, he may for a time be concerned to reflect himself well in all communications (and that becomes important to them); Over time though, they become comfortable the love / care is there and established and revert back to being more casual. Sometimes because they have got somewhate bored by the messaging or because other things took precidence.

[Chelsdope0]

When men do that it’s because he’s with another girl or he’s busy…. I learned this the hard way. Don’t let him get away with that. I understand everyone is busy, but if someone likes you they will let you know.


Men know what they’re doing….
He’s already showing inconsistency and that’s OKAY! Don’t only talk to one guy BECAUSE you're NOT THE ONLY GAL he's TALKING TO!


He needs to be punished for that. Silent treatment. Act unavailable


And believe me.. he’s going to give you some lame excuse. Don’t take the bait… I don’t care if his cat died…


Mark my words.

[Chelsdope0]

That’s what men do. 🥱 they’re also testing you to see if you’re a stupid girl lol don’t be stupid.

[IslaTheWitch]

no idea... they still text me... those I want to and all the rest :D

[Somoneelse]

Maybe he saw he always was the one to initiate the conversation and decided to stop it. It won't hurt for you to be the one to initiate it as well. Maybe he just wants to see/know if the affection/interest is on both sides. So just sent him a text!

When I see in a conversation I always am the one who has to start/initiate the conversation, I'll stop and see if the other person starts it. If not, we won't talk anymore as I then see the interest is one-sided.

[Somoneelse]

It also might be how you answered his texts. As there is a term known as "dry-texting" where the other person answers so short or uninterested, that's it's impossible to keep the conversation going without it being a interview.

For me the rule of thumb with waiting is 7 days. After 7 days I assume the person isn't interested anymore so I won't bother.

[ProbablyClueless]

Life happens. I just have other, more pressing things taking my attention. I also don't particularly enjoy texting because of how easy miscommunications are through text, so texting a woman always feels like a bit of a chore to begin with. Also, many times I will lose interest in texting because the woman's messages are kind of boring.

[WhitneySnow]

Lots of reasons, but it could be he’s found someone else

[Apple1996]

He's either busy or he's texting or with another girl

[sawno]

Two days can be normal if busy or exhausted, but its also possible he is moving on.

[spartan55]

Because guys typically can't stand texting for very long because it's tedious, lame, and BORING.

[Mr_twoface]

Reach out to him and ask him why. He may feel it is one sided.

[MrDaveAPSI]

Why do women, who said they once wanted to take a mans virginity, all the sudden, block you. I said or did NOTHING wrong to her, she just all the sudden, blocked me

[TheSpaceGnome]

It's a phone, you can talk on it, not everything has to be in a text. Call him.

[Anonymous]

Why do people text at all?

There is a thing called talking, remember that?

[laly520]

means they lost interest

[JayBones]

Because you are boring or they see no connection

[KrakenAttackin]

You bored him to death.

[Anonymous]

Have you met the guy in person?

[Asker]

5 dates

[Opinion Owner]

If you don't hear from him in a week, you're ghosted. You ask why? Can't say, other than to guess he's found a replacement.

[BLP11520]

They found somebody else🤔

[cootjuhh]

his wife is home