Is the beauty standard women have for men actually impossible?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[V_Injector]

I think I died inside when I found how women shave their mustaches off too.

Do you know what I see, when I see a woman with blue hair, that doesn't shave her armpits or vadge now? I see a shaved mustache still. She's not living up to her full potential.

Hitler Stash ladies

Tell me some more about how you don't need no man, but you still shave like a beta bucks boy who gets punked all day for a paycheck to live his blue-pilled dream and give all his money away to one of you.

I'm done... I think I found my future wife. She don't cost more money than to buy her the first time, much better than my anime pillow, cheaper than hookers for a few days, doesn't talk, will listen to me tell her how much I hate women, and is always ready to be taken to pound town.

You don't need to make kids... Biden imports them from shithole nations.

[V_Injector]

I absolutely love how my shit-posting becomes a superb opinion.

[Asker]

Not all women have mustaches to shave off. That's mostly the women who have their hormones messed up

[V_Injector]

Exceptions don't make the rule of thumb. 😂 🤣 I was just shit-posting, don't take it too seriously.

But you have brought up an issue that I've been wondering about. Because seriously, I don't remember this many women having to shave their upper lip back in the day. My suspect number one... Birth control, especially the hormonal ones that was the main type not too long ago. You got any thoughts on that?

[zeitgeist057]

Bro. There's no "beauty standard" for men. Women take men of all shapes and sizes, snaggle toothed, hairy, unhygenic, whatever. If anything, I'd say women should start to have better standards. Touch grass.

[Asker]

Yes there is

[Asker]

I can show you men.
With ugly women too

[ImalwaysrightOK]

@zeitgeist057 all those guys either got money, status or a 8 incher.

[zeitgeist057]

@ImalwaysrightOK But your tangent aside, the question was about "beauty standards".

But to humor you with additional variables, all the way to the far ends of the spectrum then yes, it's still possible for ugly men with ALSO no money, no status, and small penises to get women. It's just a bit harder but that's also because they have bigger problems and the women who are willing to date them are probably also still living with their parents or also so inwardly focused and incapacitated by their own issues.
It's like in nature, when you have members of a species that can't thrive, they have more difficulty finding mates.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

First of all, it’s not women’s beauty standards, it’s Hollywood’s beauty standards. Yes, they are achievable but usually in the work that it takes ti make those actors the right body types which involves rigorous training on top of some arguably unhealthy fasting. Women, as a whole, do not agree on a perfect standard. There are medians, but this is not a beauty standard, it’s just a generic combination of traits that can be taken or left depending on the individual.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It’s far easily attainable than the beauty standard men have for women, so stop complaining.

[msc545]

... says the most beautiful woman on the site...

[msc545]

You would look good wearing a flour sack with your face scrubbed clean, so I am not so sure your opinion should count really...

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@msc545 Thank you… I know you are saying it to make me feel good, but it works. You made my afternoon, thanks 😊

[Asker]

All I see is a cartoon pic

[Pohjolan]

Only in terms of muscles. Like height and dick size are mostly determined by genetics.

[msc545]

Not quite the point but I'll take it...😊

[tremendousfern]

You're delusional.
Women's beauty standards: 6ft height, 6 figure salary, 6 inch dick, 6 pack abs, etc.
Men's beauty standards: don't be a whore, don't nag.
Women: ThAt'S iMpOsSiBlE!

[msc545]

Exactly. This is why so many men are so damned unhappy.

[JacobJordan]

Lol the beauty standard men have for women is don't be fat. It is literally 1 thing. The beauty standard women face is from other women not men. Almost everything women say men want men don't like at all.

[Quigly]

Don't make yourself look fake seems to be mens beauty standard for women. Stop getting breast implants and other surgeries to make yourself look like a clown or cartoon. Stop dying your hair blue to make yourself look like a Smurf whore.

[coachTanthony]

Yes it's impossible for the average guy to compete with a man who is a 9/10 in looks when it comes to sex. That is as far as i would go though... relationships are different and if the man has the money and means he can do just fine.

[msc545]

Right, she will just cheat on him with a 9/10 guy while spending his money...

[Haraklus]

Not really... It's complicated.

Women "have" a beauty standard for men, which they are completely willing to throw right out the window the moment the right man comes along.

It's like that OkCupid study people love to cite that shows that women consider something like 80% of men to be below average. What people often forget is that in the latter part of the study, they also showed that women spent just as much time (or more) chatting with "unattractive" men as they did "attractive" men.

Women have fantasies, perhaps, of these highly attractive men, but they don't actually behave like average men are beneath them. They'll often hook up with the really good looking dudes a few times, then settle into a relationship with a more average-looking guy and be perfectly content, or close to it.

[Flatmanlewis]

I think the following statement is fair:


Women’s standard for a “10” man is nearly unattainable for most men, but very, very, few women pursue a 10. They are content to allow their 10 man to live in their fantasies and lust over them on whatever TV show or movie they can see them in. Even if they are with average Joe then they can still be happy not being with a 10.


Men’s standard for a “10” is a lot more attainable for a broader swath of women than for men, since so much of beauty is enhanced by makeup, hairstyles, fashion, body language, and so on. Men, however, will relentlessly pursue the hottest girl even if they are only dropping DMs in their social media, making clumsily cast pick-up lines in a bar, or have $15 in their pocket and got a ride in their friends car to the bar. If they are with a 5 and a 8 hits on them, many, many, men will try and upgrade.

[SeekerOfTruth007]

Women's biggest standard is money. They can claim whatever they want to claim about looks, but deep down, the only thing women want is money. They'll reject you no matter what else you do if you don't have MONEY, and they'll accept you no matter what wrong you do if you do have MONEY.

[Anonymous]

Yes, guys can't control their height. Like shit so what if a guy is 5'8 vs a guy who's 6'3? I keep hearing females yapping about we want taller guys to feel PROTECTED. Give me a break girl, what are you offering the guy? Are you going to be a mother of his children and have wholesome motherly values? Are you going to stick by your husband's side if he loses his job and his jobless for 6 months? What happens if your 6 ft 6 husband you desperately wanted suffers a grave illness and you have to take care of him -- are you going to run to the divorce lawyers office to file a divorce? Women seem untrustworthy and extremely, and emphasis on extremely unloyal and unfaithful. I stand by that because of the years of BS i've dealt with, what's promoted in movies, magazines, books, tv shows, streaming shows, billboards, and etc.

[Lionman95]

I didn't vote because it depends on the women you're trying to date. The high maintenance women that regularly get a lot of male attention have higher expectations in terms of male physique than many average girls. So I don't think that statement works for all women.

[HighValue]

Many certainly don't have standards for themselves since so many have tattoos, short hair like a man, odd piercings, are very overweight, and dress like prostitutes. Or maybe that is mostly places like California where I was for the majority of my life.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Yes. It's the same as guys and wanting particular features on a woman: most of them are unrealistic and in terms of percents of the population, rare. Lol 😂😆 you all know. Big tits, big arse (ass), etc etc. or certain hair or certain skin, or certain weight. women however also expect too much for the average man to have muscles and good teeth, when it's just not naturally possible for majority of men. Majority the keyword

[4ngelic]

no. for most women just dont be ugly, dont be fat, dont be too short (too short isn't like anything under 6ft or something dumb like that), dont be dirty and dont dress like a homeless person. simples

[Asker]

you're describing what women will settle for not their standard. 90% of women file for divorce because they never loved their husband they settled for him

[Siri137]

You're making the mistaken assumption that there is only one beauty standard, when in fact there are as many standards as there are women/men/people-in-general. Not everyone likes prominent muscles or flat stomachs. Personally I don't.

[Joshydavid25]

Men and women don't actually have beauty standards for each other.. Those are elites pushing on us, what they think we should like, to push more products and get more consumers.. Most people men and women will well enough like all kinds of people with flaws and all..

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

You know I only started lifting weights to get girls, back in uni. Today, all the progress I've made in the gym is only noticed by men. The beauty standard for men is being cut, which is 1000% possible for anyone. You dont need makeup, a skin care routine, etc -all yous gotta do is watch what you eat and occasionally workout for your own health.

[Anonymous]

No. Dad bods and heavy men still get married. Proof is in the puddin'.

[Asker]

Men don't want marriage☠️. That's what women want who are security focused

[Opinion Owner]

You're speaking for all men, are you?

[Asker]

For masculine men

[Opinion Owner]

I doubt they appreciate it.

[Asker]

It's a generalizable sentiment

[Peridot25]

@Asker If you mean men with small dicks and fuckboy energy, I absolutely agree.

[Asker]

@Peridot25 that has nothing to do with dick size

[Nikki1989]

The asker obviously never leaves his basement.

[Asker]

I make girls think i like them enough to marry them all the time. y'all are being played

[Opinion Owner]

@asker Yet here you are. Single. Are you afraid of commitment? Is marriage too difficult for you? Having to be faithful to one good woman for the rest of your life? Easier to just feel all problems are the woman's, isn't it? Skip that messy life step. Stay in mother's basement.

[Juxtapose]

Marriage is unnecessary to maintain a loving relationship. It is simply a means for the state to punish the man for the relationship breaking up.

[Asker]

I love how mad y'all got

[bradley142]

marriage can be an amazing thing with the right woman which in my case isn't the case but some men want to get married some dont but for the lady who said something about dad bods well said :)

[Opinion Owner]

@asker Not mad. Factual.

[MikeTheBartender]

What planet do you live in? I see hot girls fucking ugly dudes all the time! Women don't want hot guys, they want guys with a certain status or attitude. Looks definitely help, but it is nowhere near as important to women as it is to men.

[genericname85]

no it's not. don't confuse the "medially idealized man" with "female expectation". that's the same mistake women make when they think what is printed in magazines is what men actually expect.

[jshm2]

Who hurt you, kiddo?

The thing with people talking "standards" is that 9/10 they are not a barrier; but an excuse to tell you in particular to fuck off.

[Billlewis]

Women are enjoying a renaissance these days, and I think it's long overdue. I don't begrudge them a single thing they're looking for, because they deserve it, as far as I'm concerned.

[strateguy632]

"i don't expect much just 6 feet tall, financial security, muscular, drives a nice car, wears fancy expensive clothes and shoes so i can too." said hanna.

[Seinna]

They are absolutely attainable, but most men are unwilling to try to attain them... in contrast to women who will sometimes risk their lives to improve their looks.

[Unit1]

What beauty standards are these anyway?

Is it him?

That book was sold over 150 million times.