Have you ever dated more than one guy or more than one girl at the same time? What was the outcome?

[Princesspd]

[Anonymous]

I was once sexually involved with one girl and her friend. We all knew about it. It started off as a 3some and then I later hooked up with them individually. But one girl had real feelings for me even though we never officially dated. She had jealousy rages. The other girl was cool with the causal fling. Tons of drama though erupted from them. They once went off on a tirade on each other off an innocent Facebook post I put up.

But I was not in an official relationship nor “dating” either one. That was never established. One girl thought I would fall in live with her just because we were hooking up. She could of given me an ultimatum to just say “we are either dating or I need to end this” but she didn’t. It’s not my fault she didn’t make herself clear.

But I would never get in an official relationship with two people at once. No. Reason being is I would end up liking one girl more then the other. And the one I had lesser feelings for would eventually get dumped. She would then be completely heartbroken and devastated.

No offense ladies but too many of you have this naive “love triangle” fantasy bullshit. Real life isn’t the “twilight” series. This will always end in someone getting burned very bad. I know the drama and fact that two men are competing over you makes you feel very special like you are in a love story. But in reality is much more brutal.

You will end up liking one guy more then the other. Often it will be the nicer guy you ultimately reject. You also will be more confident that he will be okay with friendzone bullshit. Not all women are like that. However women who fantasize about love triangles are also selfish enough to believe they can ”piece meal” a perfect man. You get attention and your emotional needs satisfied by the nice guy and at the same time your sexual needs met but the rougher/more mysterious guy.

But ultinatwly you will always choose one guy and the other guy reality will hate you because you made him hate himself (for naively believing you would choose him). He leaves empty handed and go home to your top choice.

Don’t do that (causal is a different).

[abc3643]

No. In my cohort, you were instantly exclusive.

Put another way...

If you went on a date, either it was going to work out and you had a second (and more) dates or you weren't going to have a second date. But, if you were going to have the second date, you wouldn't be dating anyone else.

[Altheavas]

I did! It’s not that bad, as long as they know they are not exclusive, not serious, and that you’re dating someone else. To keep conflict and jealousies away, it’s best they don’t know each other. Never 2 in the same town.
Jealousy is unavoidable once they start catching feelings and want to be exclusive.

[Account]

I find it incredibly difficult to like one. Let alone more.
I don't know how there are people who can do so.
Apart from the fact that I don't want to, it seems exhausting to me.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have one weekend in which I had a first date with four women in four days. I;ve never felt comfortable dating more than one person at the same time and I very quickly winnowed the field.

[Drew-1990]

No I have not the closet I got was talking to two girls at once online. I actually wasn't a fan of that, I know there was nothing wrong with it, it was just talking stage leading to possibly date, but I still didn't enjoy. I'm really just a one woman kind of guy.

[JayBones]

No. Not really. I was feeling a girl out but it seemed more friendly. An aggressive girl asked me out and I went with it for a couple months. I went out on a fantastic date with her but really I wished it was with the shy friend. The aggressive girl sucked my dick but I never called her again and I started dating the coward. Been married for 20 years. Half a dozen kids.

[Billlewis]

No, but I've been the 'utility' guy for several women who had a regular boyfriend, but wanted the luxury of a submissive male to pamper, spoil and adore them.

[Billlewis]

I just started following you and I'd be honored if you'd like to follow me, as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.

[exitseven]

I did for a while. Neither one of them knew about the other. I treated them both badly and they both dumped me.

[Mariena_Anne92]

Never tried. Feels like cheating, sounds like cheating. The outcome must be cheating also

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's not cheating because nothing is official.

[SpaceGalaxy]

I did and when i told the first one that i started dating another one, she simply asked me to choose. Later on, second one asked me to choose as well when i told her that i was dating someone before her.

[Vegasrunner]

Yes, I try to make sure I have a minimum of three women in my roster at all times.

[McKellar]

I did once years ago when I was in high school. They didn't know about each other. I kept myself clear that way.

[KrakenAttackin]

No, never. If you are dating with intent you are spreading your intimacy too thin to really get to know someone.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ve had weeks dating more than one. Didn’t go well

[QuietRunner]

I have for a while

usually ends up with one person moving on

[laly520]

never happened

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, I prefer to commit to one person at a time.

[worldscolide]

No, but I'm not promiscuous

[Sameone]

I pick up 10 girls and i starte filter them

[Juxtapose]

I don't like it, it feels cheap.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes, but nothing serious.

[ethansf]

No. I think people who are prone to cheat do that.

[sheikalana]

Nope.