There's two guys (or more) you are into and in the end had to choose one over the other. ever had this happen before? why did you end up choosing the guy you went with over the other?
irl i had suitors but i'm quick to make the person i am not interested by just smilinh because they will ask if they can court that's how datinh culture in my country so i don't answer and try to change the subject. the only who really stick through is my ex despite my constant rejection and there are times i was hatsh because i also get annoyed but when we were bf-gf many timrd i cry because i felt guilty because my ex was priceless and my love is just so strinh i regretted the times i was a bitch i am patient but if you keep pushinh it i can really be harsh with my words i think i cuss loudly and i think pur classmates heard it and he said he will die not beinh able to communicate and my reply i will help him die he said he wanna jump in the building i told him i can help him jump by pushing him it's like that. but when we were together i also keep cryinh when i remember the things i've dine because he was just so precious
online someone is followinh me before and he is married now i think he see some potentials on me i want him to be my friend though but i don't think he wants me to be his friend. as what i have said he just see potential and i understand i think he wants that he will only be serious if you know i meet the expectations irl. there's another rich guy he spend so much with me and he also see great potentials on me but will only formally pursue if i also mert his expectations. they helped me with my ocd so i really have nothinh to lose. but i believe in Jesis in fact i'm sure so whatever happens whoever i will end up with because the latest guy has other options i trust God that whoever i willend up with he is the best one for me.
Look, I can barely get ONE guy that's interested in me. I've never had two guys interested in me at the same time. Do other women actually deal with that? Hmm.
I'm somewhat envious, yet glad because I'm sure it's not as great as people assume that kind of situation is.
Nope never had that problem
No because not many guys seriously pursue, and those that do, work out their “unwritten code” of broship and dibs. Otherwise, they’d somewhat challenge, but nowadays, many men don’t see women worth marrying let alone dying for, (that risk is greater and not worth the dreaded broken bone, or damaged rep), so to protect their own reputation and the natural instinct- to just want to have fun, they wouldn’t actually break into a fight, unless they met an unavoidable/ provocative/ disrespectful dude. 👀👐🤷♀️
Yeah it can happen but it's actually easy to choose and with the one case that I remembered immediately, I chose the one cause I had stronger interest in him and actually knew already a little and the other was someone I liked and would have gone out on a date with but I wasn't like "eager" to do so
I have not had this happen, the timing usually does not align. However, I was pursued by two guys I was NOT into at one time, which was super annoying (I am not blaming them just the situation).
I feel like this is an unrealistic, highly-idealized fantasy, but my friend said that this is happening right now with one of her other friends except it is with five guys and she already has a boyfriend.
Nope… unfortunately I was always the pursuer.. Men who pursued me were those who pursued anyone with a female genitalia… so in order for me to find someone worthy I had to pursue…. Makes me feel kinda meh….
s That has never happened to me, I'm not that lucky hahaha
But seriously, it must be a tough situation.
Well pursued by two guys but there’s one you like more but less available.
I've been pursued by 3
And you know which one I chose? lmao...
"Disappointment" 🥴
Haha so many times. Usually I choose neither
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