Should the ghoster make the first move?

[red324]

saw a girl I dated who ended things randomly with no reason at all. Couple months later saw her stopped at a stop sign looking at me. Guess my dumbass could have waived her over, but I figured she would have actually pulled over if she wanted to talk. She dumped me over text message and then immediately blocked me before I could even leave a response. Would have been nice to at least been able to argue about it. She always had such a great personality compared to all the past girls I dated who were just broken basket cases and boring. Just one of those things in life huh? Opinions? I can't ever seem to find me another one since I got banned from tinder. On tinder I could land a new date every week, can't seem to find them in real life. Or at least one that's interested.

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow man, ghosting is such a wack move on her part. I'd be pissed too if a girl dumped me outta nowhere like that.

I can feel your pain though, dealing with boring exes before her and now not finding anyone as fun. Dating can be rough sometimes.

As for if she should make the first move - I say why not, if she's feeling regretful? Seems like there was a vibe between you guys.

If it was me, I'd wait and see if she reaches out to actually apologize first before deciding if I'd wanna try again. Maybe give it a week or two then hit her up casual, like "Sup, we going for coffee or what?"

Who knows, she could just be as lonely as you now and realized what a mistake ditching was. Just play it cool if you do link up and don't come on too strong.

Otherwise just keep your head up bud, summer's coming - we'll find you some new hotties at the beach for sure! One bad apple ain't gonna spoil the bunch.

[strateguy632]

she dumped you. find another instead. leave the past.