Ghoster cameback after 3 weeks, invited me to do something together and said they missed me? I doubt it's true.
What should I do?
Ghoster cameback after 3 weeks, invited me to do something together and said they missed me? I doubt it's true.
What should I do?
Do you know the reason they ghosted you? I went out with a woman that I thought ghosted me after a couple dates, but I was actually getting a little too close too quick and she was only briefly backing off. By the time she texted me back I was already seeing someone else and she was really confused by that
No, the ghoster never truly explained. But they actually ghosted me twice. The first time, it took them 3 weeks to reply. After that, we exchanged a few messages (regarding what happened to them, etc) and they left me on read a few times. But they never really got into any details. So yeah, I once left them on delivered for 5 days, and they double texted me on day 4 (they wanted to know if I was okay). And once I replied, it took them 4 hours to reply to me. And after that, we were on "good terms". So I stopped texting them to see if they would reach out, but they didn't.
So 2 weeks later, I reached out and invited them to do an activity with me. They left me on read/ghosted me for 3 weeks. And yeah, here I am. I haven't replied yet. It's been 2 days, and I haven't opened the message yet. I'm thinking of ghosting them back. I feel like they're just trying to see if they still have "control" over me by saying what I wanna hear ("I miss you", "Do you want to do X thing with me today?", etc).
Oh and when they finally replied (a couple days ago), they tried to make me believe that they "didn't know that I had written to them"... which is false, considering the fact that they actually left me on read a few weeks ago. And if they really did miss me, they would have probably reached out earlier than that.
She's probably seeing other people or super busy with something else. You definitely dont seem like a priority to her
Well I obviously know that, I was left on read for 3 weeks. But it was just a friend, not a romantic interest. So I don't really care whether they're seeing someone else or not. I'm kinda starting to think that the person is a narc.
THAT makes 10000% more sense. I was under the impression you went on a date with this person at some point
You're her friend. Why do you care about text frequency?
No, what bothers me is the ghosting. Just because it's a friend doesn't mean that ghosting is okay. Especially not for 3 weeks. I could understand not getting a response for a few days... but 3 weeks? That's way too long.
And now, the fact that they act like they "didn't see the message" while they actually left me on read 3 weeks ago is another thing that truly bothers me. Like, what's the point of lying about it if we can see the read receipt?
Oof. Get a girlfriend and crawl out her ass
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